¿DO GAY MEN AND WOMEN BOTH PREFER LARGE PENISES?

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There's an old joke that goes, "There are two types of gay men: size queens and liars." But does that hold up, scientifically speaking?

A new study of sexually active students at the University of the West of Scotland suggests that while some women prefer guys with above-average penises, they may appreciate them in ways different from gay men.

Live Science explains:

In the new study, [psychology researcher] Brody and his colleagues asked 323 women, mostly Scottish university students, to recall past sexual encounters. They were asked about their recent sexual behaviors as well as how important penile-vaginal intercourse and other sex acts were to them. They were also asked whether penis length influenced their ability to orgasm with vaginal stimulation...

They found that 160 of the women experienced vaginal-only orgasms and had enough sexual partners to compare size experiences. Of these, 33.8 percent preferred longer-than-average penises [longer than six inches], 60 percent said size made no difference and 6.3 percent said longer was less pleasurable than shorter.

If gay men are anything like the women in this study, then almost two-thirds of us don't care how big your penis is. But for those of us nervous about whether we'd measure up to the remaining one-third who prefer above-average cocks, remember this—those women connected bigger cocks to their ability to achieve orgasm.

That is, larger penis size may matter when it comes to stimulating vaginal orgasms—something that even female sex researchers dispute. But seeing as most men don't have vaginas, gay men may be much less dependent on their partner's penis size to get off.

Can desirable physical attributes like a nice butt or large penis help a sexual partner reach climax? Absolutely. But in the gay world, most men climax due to manual or oral stimulation rather than so-called "anal orgasms" from bottoming.

So while a large penis may excite the size queens in all of us, it's just one factor of many that sets the stage for a satisfying sexual encounter.

You are much bigger than your penis, so don't forget the very important roles that charm, intelligence, emotional connection and seduction play in getting both you and your guy off... no matter your size.

SOURCE: GAY DOT COM

MAKE HIM SCREAM: THE MALE PLEASURE ZONES

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You may have been so into getting yours that you forget that your man is multi-sensory and can experience intense sexual pleasure in a variety of ways. Gone are the days when you thought giving head was his only form of pleasure. I give you some new spots to hit.

LET'S-BUST-A-LOT

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In this wonderful world of dicks and asses we at BlackRayne get asked a slew of questions some, which we pay no mind to, and some that actually make us, think. Since our videos make you bust loads of nut, ever worry about the actual sperm count? I know some think we will be young forever and may not have to worry about that kind of issue but the fact of the matter is at a certain age that may be something to stress over.

We know we may be dealing with an audience that may not think about having any kids, (but then again who are we to say ? ) but here at Black Rayne we are known for our models shooting huge LOADS, want to get like us?

Ok, if you bust a lot that means your testosterone is high and you have a healthy reproductive system and you have what it takes . An increase in sperm count can also increase your libido and sexual desire for your shawty. Wouldn’t he just love that, more fuckin! That’s what you wanted right?

SEX PARTIES/ORGIES...

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¿WHAT ARE YOU THOUGHTS ON SUCH ACTIVITIES? 

5 MUTUAL MASTURBATION TIPS FOR MEN

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My mutual masturbation techniques all have one thing in common: pleasure. When trying out these techniques, consult with your partner about tweaking the situations to best suit your sexual needs and desires. Be sure to use a quality lubricant when enjoying masturbation. I use a Gun Oil Water Based Lubricant because it feels silky , doesn't dry out nor stain my sheets. Silicone based lubricants are great for masturbation. The newer formulations work well with sex toys while providing a very smooth glide. Wet Extenze Premium Lubricant heightens the sexual experience with a tingling sensation and aphrodisiac herbal blend that will thrill and excite. Now that you are ready to stroke, let learn a new technique.

Voyeur

 This simplistic technique requires that one partner ask the other to go into the bedroom or other designated room for pleasure and begin masturbating. After a few moments, the second person enters the room and sits across the room or close to the person who is already deeply involved in masturbating. No words are spoken. The second person, who typically enjoys voyeurism, receives pleasure from viewing their partner's pleasure.

Story Time

 For a couple or Jacks group, a sexual story shared by one participant. As each person masturbates, one participants tells a sexually explicit story either from personal experience. This technique not only allows for higher sexual arousal for all involved, but let's each person get to know the other person's sexual desires and fantasies. This can be used for future masturbation sessions. Simply google erotica to find a story of your choosing . Erotica captures the tension and raw energy of desire.

Two Toys

 Mutual masturbation should involove toys. This is a new frontier for men. With each partner using a toy on the other, twice the fun is created. One partner can use a masturbator such as the Super Sucker 2.0 Masturbator  or The Gripper Ultimate Stroker while the other enjoys anal stimulation from a protstate massager. You can switch toys to double your pleasure.

Give and Take

One of the most satisfying mutual masturbation techniques is the give and take. This technique is achieved when one partner masturbates or manually stimulates the other partner for several minutes then receives for several minutes until climax is reached by both.

Frottage

The final entry on the list of mutual masturbation techniques is one step from penetration. Frottage is growing as a satisfying alternative to penetration. One partner places his pelvis on the pelvis of his partner. He moves as if achieving penetration without the actual act. Be sure to rub lubricant between the legs of your partner to prevent dick burn. The rubbing of the genitals creates immense pleasure for each partner.

Masturbation doesn't have to be a solo sport. With a little creativity, you can create a fantastic experience when you are not in the mood to go all the way. But don't be suprised if your partner requests another round.

SOURCE: DICKZTOYZ

SEX...

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That's all I want, that's all I need... SEX

Come here and give me some of that oh so good dick

Let me treat it like only a man can

I want your SEX

Fuck me like you know what you're doing

Stick that dick in this hole

Make me moan and groan

I Need your SEX

I'm gonna squeeze it til it empties out

Every inch of your manhood,

Every ounce of your goodness

Give me some SEX

Fuck Me Boi!  Just Fuck Me!

TELLING HIM HE DOESN'T NEED XL CONDOMS

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When shopping for condoms, it may require some experimentation to find the best condom for you.  This is especially true since almost every condom brand has its own definition of regular and large. When other factors like whether a condom is ribbed, thin or contoured are taken into consideration, finding the best condom for you and your partner may take testing various types until you find the best fit.  There are classic, traditional sized and a Platinum XL sized condoms out there for our sexual pleasure. 

So, how can you help your partner get over the size issue? Try some of these tips:

GAY MEN: HOW ARE YOU STROKE SKILLS?

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There’s nothing worse than a man with no rhythm in the bedroom. And usually, I’m more than willing to instruct my lovers how to stroke me properly. But there are occasions that I really just want them to get it right the first time, and not hump me like they’re descendents of a dog species.

I’ve had gorgeous lovers, many in perfect shape, extremely athletic, and flexible. But for some strange reason, they get in the bed and their hips only know one motion: back and forth super rapidly without stopping. In most cases, men’s ass muscles do not respond forcefully to one motion during sex.

So I feel the need to have a conversation with our gay men. Because good homosexual sex takes joint focus on two persons’ needs. You can’t just hump men like jack rabbits (well you can), and then ask why our faces looked dead when you use our asses like lab receptacles. We’re not your semen dumping grounds. You should just rub a nut and watch a porno flick if you’re going to be self-centered.

Stroking is an art. It’s power lies in spontaneity, different levels of speed, various depths, and most importantly, rhythm. A good stroke is spontaneous because it will keep the man guessing, speed up to activate the many points that bring him that pleasurable pain, slow down to provide a crescendo into exploring his depths, and yet still feel like a beautiful rhythm that you’ve composed through your head.

It’s not enough to simply give us monotone humps, and expect a porn star reaction. If you want a man to moan, shake, and naturally tighten his ass muscles, it’s a requirement to constantly work on your stroke.

Once you’ve got the stroke down, you can add small touches like gently massaging his prostate or sucking his toes, all while you keep your rhythm. But without the good stroke, none of these extras will compensate. Master the basic ingredients, and then add the icing. Good sex requires dedication to self-improvement. And there’s no reason for anyone to settle for mediocre, one-sided sex when two-partnered bliss awaits.

What constructive criticism can we provide our men for better stroking and better sex? 

BOTTOMS: ¿DO YOU?

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This is for the men that are on the bottom during sex: 

¿do you make him stop if you get off BEFORE he does? 

¿WHAT'S THE LONGEST YOU'VE GONE WITHOUT SEX?

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A while back ‘Project Runway’ mentor and  new co-host of “The Revolution,” Tim Gunn, dropped jaws everywhere when he revealed that he hasn’t had sex in 29 years….and he’s totally okay with it.  To me what’s fascinating about this revelation is not the self induced celibacy; it’s that Gunn admitted exactly how long it’s been.  

We live in a society where sex and lots of it is everywhere and very much a part of our lives.  From porn websites and politicians, to reality shows and advertisements, sex sells and big time.  So in a world where sex is practically everything, where do you fit in if you aren’t getting any?

Of course not everyone is going without sex for 29 years, but I know people who act like going without it for 2 days is a sign of the apocalypse.  Many people lie about how active, or not, their sex lives really are, no one truly wants to admit that more often than not it’s just them in the bed at night…if that.  For his part Gunn’s decision to refrain from sex was actually a reasonable one, Gunn claims the decision followed a difficult breakup and is partly “psychological.” He cites health, and fear of sexually transmitted diseases such as AIDS.

According to Gunn:

“Do I feel like less of a person for it? No!” he said. “I am a perfectly happy, fulfilled individual.  I am happy to be healthy and alive, quite frankly.”

But let’s face it, no matter how practical and rational his reason, Gunn is in the minority.  Not too many people are trying to go 6 months without sex, so 29 years??  Yea no.  Most of the time if people go long periods without sex it’s not totally by choice; they probably just haven’t found anyone they find attractive enough to give it up to.  I tip my hat to Gunn because I personally went two years straight without sex in college and let me tell you, there was nothing fun about that right there.  Nothing.

What’s The Longest You’ve Gone Without Sex?

¿TOPS, DOES IT?

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This is for the men that are on TOP: 

tell me does sex still feel enjoyable if he gets off BEFORE you?

SEX DRIVE: ¿HOW HIGH IS YOURS?

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ALL DAY I DREAM ABOUT SEX, is that you?

Do you know that our daily sex drives aren’t always indicators that we need penetrative sex all the time?

What is good penetrative sex for you?

For me it is that energy-sucking, toe-curling, body-twisting exercise that tends to exhaust my partner and me. It’s pleasure on steroids, non-stop, rarely quick, and intense. It’s a thorough, deep, and attentive experience between my partner and me. It’s back-to-back orgasms, trying crazy positions, and matching each other’s lovemaking efforts.

I don’t need or want this every day. Do you need that?

I imagine there are gay men that enjoy penetrative sex on a daily basis, and men that may thank them for it. Not all of us need or want penetrative intercourse every day. How does this influence your relationship with our partner? Are they understanding? Impatient? Frustrated? Or do they feel the same way and not need penetrative sex as a daily sexual energy release?

How strong is your sex drive?

Do you need penetrative intercourse on a daily basis?

Or do you invest your sexual energy in other daily activities?

¿THOUGHTS?

¿CAN YOUR RELATIONSHIP SURVIVE IF HE IS NOT 'HITTIN' IT RIGHT?

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Mr. Good Dick hits your spot every single time, from every single angle and stares you dead in the eyes while doing it. It felt like all of your chakras came out of your body and did an African tribal dance in mid air. It was a completely otherworldly experience. Your body was still shaking, even after he pulled out. Yep, he hit your ‘bottom.’ That oh so sweet abyss, where no man has ever ventured. However times moves along, and you are a grown man now, and you want to settle down and be serious. You have your eyes open for a man that is husband and good father material, when alas the man of your grown man dreams magically appears into your life, and sweeps you off your feet. He is smart, good looking loves your dirty drawls and would clean them if you ask. But the sad fact of the matter is, he can’t take you to the places that Mr. Good Dick did sexually. Problematic much?

It’s a sad but true fact that sometimes the man that loves you doesn’t want or know how to fuck you. He views you in a different light. He touches you delicately, because you are his angel. When truly you are dying on the inside to be picked up, put on a wall, or otherwise forced to take it with his hand is over your mouth (Don’t blush, you know that it’s true.)

This is a legitimate question. Does telling your man how to put it on you take the excitement out of it? For most of us the answer to that question would be emphatically, YES! More importantly, would the lack of your sexual fulfillment spill over into other parts of your relationship? Invariably, yes. There is a certain level of docility, call it subservience if you will that we men project when a man is f&cking our brains out, right? Without that key ingredient in the bedroom, can you stay with such man?

We know that good sex and spectacular orgasms release endorphins and bring about overall feelings of happiness. Are you more cranky when your man is not giving it to you in the ways that you desire? Don’t lie. Be honest with yourself. Can a relationship between a lackluster lover, really stand the test of time? Is there a fine medium between Mr. Good Dick and the man of your dreams, or are the two mutually exclusive? Will this new relationship survive, if your man possesses most everything you desire, except for knowing how to turn you out?’

¿SEX WITH CHEATER?

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¿If he was cheating on his mate with you, and he dumped you would you tell on him?

¿WHAT INTERESTING MOVIE DESCRIBES YOUR SEX LIFE?

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¿WOULD YOU HAVE SEX EVEN IF HE/SHE IS TAKEN?

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¿If you were truly feeling someone would you still have sex with him even though you know he's involved with someone else? (male or female) 

¿LOUIS VUITTON CONDOMS ANYONE?

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Louis Vuitton has always been known for its variety of high quality products; luggage, bags, shoes, clothes, sunglasses… and now condoms! WAIT, what?! Yes you read it correctly. Louis Vuitton has now entered the contraception business. Fans of the brand can now completely “cover up”  in all Louis Vuitton, with no exceptions. I heard that Chanel was offering a similar product with the French House famous “C’s” written on it.

You can never put a price on protection, except when the protection will cost you $68 per condom for the LV ones. From the price tag alone it’s apparent that like the rest of the Louis Vuitton products, these condoms are to cater to the rich and wealthy, and those who live above their means. I heard that Chanel condoms are sold by pack of 12 and it would cost around $280. I say “would” because they are very hard to find. Xmas is cumming, these condoms could be excellent gift ideas for your f*&k~friends or nice hostess gifts…right?

SEX ON THE FIRST DATE...

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 ¿If you were truly feeling a man/woman would you have sex on the First Date?

¿DOES PORN REALLY DO IT FOR YOU?

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Take your typical female who moans N’ groans while pleasuring her co-star as he make her gag till her makeup starts running, as young man (sans the homosexuality) this excited me to NO end; but as fully grown gay man, I find that I have to search deep and long (pun intended) for a good porn worth watching. I find that while sex should be all about what gives the people who are engaging in it pleasure, porn is the TOTAL opposite of that.

Why is it when people have sex on camera for money they’re doing a job, and what they do isn’t designed to turn them on, it’s designed to turn on the viewer  and to make the director and editors jobs easier? Porn isn’t a document of two (or more) people having pleasurable sex, its one person’s idea of what will titillate us. Don’t believe me? I dare you to deny how PERFECT their bodies look naked…and moving.

HERE ARE FEW INTERESTING THINGS I FOUND ON THE NET ABOUT THE PORN WE WATCH:

SEX & US...

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FOR YEARS, WE'VE BEEN TAUGHT MANY THINGS ABOUT SEX & NO MATTER WHAT YOU BELIEVE, WE ALL KNOW IT IS A NATURAL ACT BETWEEN TO CONSENTING ADULTS. ON THIS SUBJECT WE HAVE A DIVIDE WITH VERY LITTLE IN BETWEEN, SO TELL ME IS SEX:

TOO CONFINED & COMMITTED 

¿OR? 

TOO OPEN & UNCOMMITTED

WHEN SEX IS PIGEONHOLED INTO THESE TWO CATEGORIES, DO YOU THINK IT HURTS US?