Mr. Good Dick hits your spot every single time, from every
single angle and stares you dead in the eyes while doing it. It felt like all
of your chakras came out of your body and did an African tribal dance in mid
air. It was a completely otherworldly experience. Your body was still shaking,
even after he pulled out. Yep, he hit your ‘bottom.’
That oh so sweet abyss, where no man has ever ventured. However times moves
along, and you are a grown man now, and you want to settle down and be serious.
You have your eyes open for a man that is husband and good father material,
when alas the man of your grown man dreams magically appears into your life,
and sweeps you off your feet. He is smart, good looking loves your dirty drawls
and would clean them if you ask. But the sad fact of the matter is, he can’t
take you to the places that Mr. Good Dick did sexually. Problematic much?
It’s a sad
but true fact that sometimes the man that loves you doesn’t want or know how to
fuck you. He views you in a different light. He touches you delicately, because
you are his angel. When truly you are dying on the inside to be picked up, put
on a wall, or otherwise forced to take it with his hand is over your mouth (Don’t blush, you know that it’s true.)
This is a
legitimate question. Does telling your
man how to put it on you take the excitement out of it? For most of us the
answer to that question would be emphatically, YES! More importantly, would
the lack of your sexual fulfillment spill over into other parts of your
relationship? Invariably, yes. There is a certain level of docility, call
it subservience if you will that we men project when a man is f&cking our
brains out, right? Without that key
ingredient in the bedroom, can you stay
with such man?
We know that
good sex and spectacular orgasms release endorphins and bring about overall
feelings of happiness. Are you more
cranky when your man is not giving it to you in the ways that you desire?
Don’t lie. Be honest with yourself. Can a
relationship between a lackluster lover, really stand the test of time? Is there a fine medium between Mr. Good Dick
and the man of your dreams, or are the two mutually exclusive? Will this new
relationship survive, if your man possesses most everything you desire, except
for knowing how to turn you out?’
I hav never had an issue with being vocal about what I want, what I like. If you can't talk about sex what are the chances that you can talk about the bigger issues that will come up when building a life together. Communication in every relationship is essential. Even the shit you don't want to say or hear.
ReplyDeleteI learn more about you with each blog entry, LOVES IT!
DeleteAll I know is that after sex my man sings! Somebody must be doing something right!
ReplyDeleteEVERY TIME?
DeleteI think it can survive as long as every thing else is perfect you could look over something so small as hitting it right and especially for me cause I'm more just oral with my partner(s).
ReplyDelete-It's Dean
A friend of mine said something similar to me the other day. I have to let him know he isn't the only one.
DeleteIf the supposed MOMD cant get you off, then he's obviously NOT "The One". Been there, done that and there's no sense in trying to fool yourself otherwise.
ReplyDeleteThere is certainly room for compromise and adjustment but if you aren't satisfied in the bedroom then it's likely that this will spill over into other areas and make life in general pretty miserable for both parties.
And this is "the shit we dont want to hear"... LOL
I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOUR POINT! If Noel wasn't doing it for me and I him I am sure we wouldn't be TWOGETHER.
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