No I wouldn't. For me, it is a question of spiritual maturity. It may have been immature for me to have been involved with someone in a committed relationship to begin with. That depends on many different possible factors and we can find ourselves in such situations for many different reasons. At the end of the day however, that piece becomes rather immaterial. Whether it was or wasn't immature I still have a choice to act in a mature way when it comes to the "telling on him" part. I can't speak for anyone else. I however, know that if I did that it would be motivated by spiteful, vengeful type reasons and energy. And I strive to be more mature in what motivates my actions.
Absolutely not! I've actually been in this situation a couple of times and never betrayed my confidence. I knew he was in a relationship when I first bedded him and I chose to continue to allow him into my bed thereafter. I'm not the "commitment police" so why should I turn "sour grapes" when he eventually does what we both knew he was going to do to begin with? I'm man enough to know that my ASSets are definitely appreciated elsewhere. Grow up and move on. Life is too short. If he cheated on his partner with me, what's he going to do further down the road. A good fu*k is just that, accept it and get on with life and find love somewhere else.
No, it's their shit, not mine. Besides, I can't see how I would be bitter. I have been with other people's guys, when the have open relationships (or so they said, and if they are lying that is on them). I've never flaunted it, nor hid it. But I sure as hell never got emotionally invested enough to feel bitter when he was done.
Unfortunately, the only way to really learn the rules of this game is the hard way. Take ur lumps like a man and in the words of Judge Joe, "DO BETTER."
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No I wouldn't. For me, it is a question of spiritual maturity. It may have been immature for me to have been involved with someone in a committed relationship to begin with. That depends on many different possible factors and we can find ourselves in such situations for many different reasons. At the end of the day however, that piece becomes rather immaterial. Whether it was or wasn't immature I still have a choice to act in a mature way when it comes to the "telling on him" part. I can't speak for anyone else. I however, know that if I did that it would be motivated by spiteful, vengeful type reasons and energy. And I strive to be more mature in what motivates my actions.
ReplyDeleteAWESOME way of seeing the situation!
DeleteAbsolutely not! I've actually been in this situation a couple of times and never betrayed my confidence. I knew he was in a relationship when I first bedded him and I chose to continue to allow him into my bed thereafter. I'm not the "commitment police" so why should I turn "sour grapes" when he eventually does what we both knew he was going to do to begin with? I'm man enough to know that my ASSets are definitely appreciated elsewhere. Grow up and move on. Life is too short. If he cheated on his partner with me, what's he going to do further down the road. A good fu*k is just that, accept it and get on with life and find love somewhere else.
ReplyDeleteget IN, get OFF and get OUT huh? TOTALLY agree with your point.
DeleteNo, it's their shit, not mine. Besides, I can't see how I would be bitter. I have been with other people's guys, when the have open relationships (or so they said, and if they are lying that is on them). I've never flaunted it, nor hid it. But I sure as hell never got emotionally invested enough to feel bitter when he was done.
ReplyDeleteKeep sex and feelings separate huh? I mastered that as well.
DeleteTo roll w/ such a foulness? Me? Never that! To do so would be officially what I'd call a B.A.M (Bitch Azz Move).
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DeleteOMFG yes, like yesterday even.
ReplyDeleteL(O)L!
DeleteUnfortunately, the only way to really learn the rules of this game is the hard way. Take ur lumps like a man and in the words of Judge Joe, "DO BETTER."
ReplyDeleteGood ole' Joe!
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