If I knew they were in a relationship no. Unless I knew it was an open relationship and that his partner was ok with it. Provided I was single of course.
I have. He was on the DL and we were in a f**k buddy relationship for almost a year. I'm not proud of it, but I can't deny it. He ended up leaving her a few weeks after we stopped our trysts and wanted to get back together. However, I was tired of not being able to go anywhere with him except my bed.
ROGER: I KNOW YOU SAY YOU ARE NOT PROUD IT, BUT I DON'T THINK IT IS SOMETHING TO BE ASHAMED OF EITHER. IN A SITUATION LIKE THAT, I FEEL IT IS HOW HANDLE THE TRUTH ABOUT WHAT A RELATIONSHIP LIKE THAT REALLY MEANS.
@jeff: I never much cared if they lied about being allowed to play, their problem. The point is I was not sneaking around on anyone. Not my commitment, and it's not like I would think about anything serious developing. I just never wanted to be the sneak around guy.
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If I knew they were in a relationship no. Unless I knew it was an open relationship and that his partner was ok with it. Provided I was single of course.
ReplyDeleteJAMIES: SO MANY VARIABLES HUH?
ReplyDeleteNo. Karma is a BEE-otch!
ReplyDeleteOne.
Yes, if they were in an open relationship.
ReplyDeleteFine line to walk. Thankfully most guys are pretty straight up if they are cheating. Decreases the chances of getting caught.
ReplyDeleteMOAN: IT SURE IS!
ReplyDeletePHOTO: MAKE SENSE.
ReplyDeleteJAMIES: THOUGH MOST LOVE GETTING CAUGHT!
ReplyDeleteAnd here I thought the goal was not to get caught.
ReplyDeleteJAMIES: THAT'S WHAT I SEE AROUND ME THESE DAYS.
ReplyDeleteI have. He was on the DL and we were in a f**k buddy relationship for almost a year. I'm not proud of it, but I can't deny it. He ended up leaving her a few weeks after we stopped our trysts and wanted to get back together. However, I was tired of not being able to go anywhere with him except my bed.
ReplyDeleteI have. If that's all your both in it for why not?
ReplyDeleteMost of the guys I encountered who advertised themselves as having 'permission to play' were full of crap, i.e. 'no nights or weekends.'
ReplyDeleteDishonesty was the ultimate turn-off for me and most of the time I avoided the cheaters. (most of the time).
ROGER: I KNOW YOU SAY YOU ARE NOT PROUD IT, BUT I DON'T THINK IT IS SOMETHING TO BE ASHAMED OF EITHER. IN A SITUATION LIKE THAT, I FEEL IT IS HOW HANDLE THE TRUTH ABOUT WHAT A RELATIONSHIP LIKE THAT REALLY MEANS.
ReplyDeleteSTAN: YOU ALWAYS MAKE ME SMILE.
ReplyDeleteJEFF: WELL YOU ARE IN A HAPPIER PLACE NOW, SO THE JOURNEY SERVED A PURPOSE.
ReplyDelete@jeff: I never much cared if they lied about being allowed to play, their problem. The point is I was not sneaking around on anyone. Not my commitment, and it's not like I would think about anything serious developing. I just never wanted to be the sneak around guy.
ReplyDeleteJAMIES: GET IN, GET OFF N GET OUT HUH?
ReplyDeleteSometimes;)
ReplyDeleteJAMIES: I MEMBA THOSE DAYS...
ReplyDeleteintresting but depends with he pull-he/she bangingly attractive-shallow maybe!!
ReplyDeleteROBMARK: MAYBE HUH? OTAY!
ReplyDeleteNo way!I have been in the situation once or twice and as stated earlier in the comments by:Lin "karma is a Bee it ch." It is just not right.
ReplyDeleteCHET: DAMN THAT KARMA!
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