WHAT SAGE ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO THIS E-MAIL: I am in a happy 6 month relationship. My boyfriend and I are both young
(23 and 22) and we live together. Thing is, I never expected our relationship
to develop this far. When we started dating, I was getting over being
rejected by a friend of mine that I was nearly in love with. He made it clear
that he was straight by introducing his girlfriend to me, but when he did he
had so much sadness in his eyes. He even tried to stop me from leaving his
place. We hung out a lot. All of my friends who knew about the situation felt that
we were afraid to admit what we each really wanted.
Then I eventually felt like it was silly
of me to try to be with someone when I was unsure about their sexuality. I
started dating the best guy ever to come into my life. My boyfriend basically
put me back together after the rejection. I told him a few months into our
relationship about my crush on my 'straight' friend and he said did not care.
Then my crush and I started hanging out again. He says he isn't 'crazy'
jealous, though.
My boyfriend is compassionate, loving,
just great. But I still have feelings for my 'straight' friend. Strong ones,
though I keep them repressed. I never admitted to my friend the feelings that I
have. And I don't know why I like him so much, if it's because I'm black and
he's Asian, or if it's because we are so much alike. I feel a bit guilty
because it seems I'm leading my boyfriend on but I seriously do love him. Any
advice on what I should do?
I CAME ACROSS THIS EMAIL & WONDERED WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO THIS PERSON:I am recently out of a 16 year
relationship. I met my my ex-spouse when I was 25 and at 41 suddenly found
myself, (pardon the pun) thrust into singledom. I was not only shocked, but
frankly disgusted at the attitude of the gay men in the community when it comes
to relationships. What happened to the guys while I was living my life in the
suburbs?
I have never heard as much BS shoveled as guys that supposedly want
to date. Some of my favorites to date:
• "Date? Oh no, we cannot go on a date, we can be
friends and see where it goes".
• Him: "I want to get to know you better..." Me:
"Like a date?" (refer to comment above)
• Said by a 50+ year old to me... "I don't see myself settling
down until I am in my 60's" (good luck finding a nurse maid. I will
change a partners diaper if we built a life together, but not yours because you
decided you don't want to die alone)
• Him: "I see myself having a boyfriend and I spend 2-3 nights a
week at his house and him 2-3 at mine". (Seems an awful lot like
dating to me).
• Well, I see my partner having a drawer at my house and me at his, that way
a split is easier. (Nice, start a life together with the exit strategy
already in place).
I have talked to friends about this and the only thing I can seem
to come up with is that suddenly the word "date" doesn't mean to
"get to know someone", it is like you are engaged and picking out
china patterns. Am I reading this wrong?
It also appears to me that gay men want some sort
of guarantees that life is going to be rainbows, unicorns, and flying
monkeys shooting out of your ass 24 hours a day, seven days a week, as there
can be no drama. Do you have to be Rebbecca of Sunnybrook Farm all day
every day, and never have ups and downs?
I can tell you after 16 years that life is messy. We had divorces
of family members, deaths of grandmothers and parents, changes in employment
status, etc. So, to add the remark, "Oh, and no drama", I am
guessing that I am the only person on the planet not to have grown up at
Disney's Fantasyland. I am utterly confused.
I get the feeling that gay men seem to be of the opinion that if
you are friends with someone first, it is automatically going to work out. The
problem, I have never slept with a friend, nor do I plan to as that is the
surest way to lose a friend. I have always found that after I get to know
someone so well, I know way more about that person than a boyfriend should
know, and I don't ever want to sleep with them (That orgy on top of the post
office in West Hollywood, where you got fisted with no lube...yikes!).
How is a single man supposed to find love in a community that wants
marriage and yet has no respect for it at the same time? I am tired of people
wanting to find out what is behind the next zipper, and not actually wanting to
get to know the person to which that appendage your after is attached. Have I
become too unrealistic or jaded? I am beginning to feel that I will spend the
rest of my life alone.
I am very
confused about a situation with my ex. We dated for about 9 months and lived
together in the same apartment. Toward the end of our relationship he felt
trapped and tied down so he started looking to end the relationship. We talked
to see if we could work things out but it only got worse. He ended up moving
out and I decided to move back to my home state, about 440 miles away.
I was devastated. He told me we would
never be together again that he was not interested in me. These were very
hurtful words and I thought everything was over.
After a few months I had a business
trip in our city and mentioned to him that I would be in town for a few days.
He called, we ended up meeting, and I spent the night with him. We had sex and
it was strange but very satisfying. Then last week I was in the city again for
a follow-up meeting, and he agreed to stay with me in the hotel. I even took
our dogs to see him. We drank, had a great time, and even had sex again. He
told me he loved me and was afraid of hurting me again.
I have such strong feelings for him
and I know that I love him. He tends to hide his feelings better, but I know he
cares about me. After these reunions, I began to think about moving back—not
for him, but for myself. I am not happy in my hometown, I truly miss the city
and the nightlife. I am currently in the process of getting a job in the city
and it is possible that I will eventually move back. He said he hoped I would
move back as well.
This is all
very confusing because I don't want to trick myself into believing something is
there when it may not be. Am I doing the right thing or am I tricking myself?
Please help!
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year, and we really love one
another. There's nothing better than when we cuddle and make love, and my
favorite thing is when he puts his head on me and just lies there. But we have
one problem that has made things frustrating: We're both bottoms.
Hello,
I've been struggling for about a year now with an unrequited love that has left
me so empty and lonely that I honestly don't know where to turn to. A long
story short, I feel in love with an amazing guy who is 4 years older than me.
Due to age difference he has refused to be my partner although we have lived so
much things as though we are a couple. In my heart we are a couple actually.
I love
him very deeply and have been faithful to him even if he doesn't care. We used
to talk a lot, message over facebook, chat over messenger...we have been very
close. But lately, these past 3 months he has been very distant although we
meet in person quiet regularly. Although this time around what gets me is that
he is lost in his cellphone, responding text and facebook messages while he
hardly responds to mine lately. He claims he doesn't love me and actually he
just thinks of me as a friend, yet we have sex whenever he wants to, not when I
want to.
I got this e-mail the other day, but instead of asking the usual sex-
questions the young man wanted advice on coming out. Having experienced a basically normal coming out process, these letters usually feel pretty straightforward to me, but this one was different. It made me wonder...
When it comes to protecting your own well-being, is it sometimes better to stay safely in the closet?
Here’s the e-mail:
I am a closeted homosexual, and I really need help. My parents really don’t like gays or anything associated with LGBT themes. My dad can’t even look at the color pink. They have gone so far as to say they would kill us (their children) if we ended up that way, and I’ve been this way for a long time. My dad really loves me, but in reality he abhors me. My mom is a little more compassionate about this, but still she hates it. I’ve never told anyone [I'm gay], and my issue is really causing me a lot of mental stress. How can I change their minds in order to happily bust down my closet door?
I'm 39 and I've been out of the closet for a number of years now. I've met some gay guys but it didn't seem like we ever had much to talk
about, much in common, or they just didn't seem like they wanted any
interaction, from me anyway.
I'm really tired of going at things
alone, talking to friends who really don't fully understand what I go through.
There are clubs and events I go to, but I
can't say I've found any men that interest me and the last thing I want to do is
become just the one night stand kinda guy. Time and time again I find myself just lusting and having
fantasies about men I know can't be gay only to find that the second they open
their mouths I figure out they were just physically enticing. I suppose that's
another problem, since I haven't really been able to get to know too many guys
on a friendly level I usually just lust from afar.
So my real question is this: How in the
world do I figure out how to find someone I can connect and communicate with?
Last summer
I met Luke, who's 40. I'd just turned 25, was having fun at the bars, but then
I met him and he was super hot. We started dating, and it was pretty great.
He'd take me to cool things, he's smart, and the sex is amazing. Like some
weekends we don't even leave the bedroom. Without saying too much, Luke's
taught me a lot.
The tough part was both our sets of friends, who would tease us about the
15 year age difference. All the little jokes kind of annoyed me. I'd try to
brush them off, but after a while I was more into us not hanging out with them
because it got old. I don't want to be that needy boyfriend who says he can't
hang out with his friends, and he's not the kind of guy who'd accept that
anyway, so we both spend time with our friends when we're not together.
Then a couple weeks ago my friends and I were out clubbing and this
really hot guy hit on me. I was drunk and we ended up sleeping together. I felt
like crap and told Luke. He said he understood, that I was young and needed to
play around. That kind of pissed me off, because it felt like he didn't
appreciate how guilty I felt. I also feel like I should be able to say no to temptation like
that. Then last night I said I wanted us to be officially boyfriends and he
said he wanted to also, but if I ever wanted it to "open up" the
relationship that he understood and he'd be cool with that. He said he's fine
keeping it closed for now, but it's up to me.
I don't think I want that, and I've never said I wanted that, so why is
he assuming it? Is he trying to tell me something? Or is this just because I
cheated on him that one time?
I don't know how old you are, but I'm hoping to talk to an older guy who
might have some ideas on what's happening with Luke and what I should do?
Why won't some guys
kiss me while we’re having sex?
I've had it happen
before with internet hook ups, and I figured they had some sex issue. I could
brush that off. But recently I picked up a guy at a bar who took me home and
let me do whatever I wanted to his body. We did it all! But every time I tried
to kiss him, he pulled turned his head and directed me back to business.
There was a time
until the early 1960s when the terms to describe those of African decent, like
me -- African-American or Black or Afro-American -- were almost unheard of. I
remember a distinct conversation with a friend discussing descriptive terms for
ourselves in 1963 or ’64. The term “black” was just coming into vogue and he
didn't like it one bit. “Call me a Negro,” he said, “but don't call me
black.”
Now, the word “Negro” (publications
used a lower case “n”) has almost become a pejorative, so I was a little
surprised when my pastor, the Rev. Willie Reid, used it during Thursday's
revival. “Back when we were Negroes,” he said, and listed several things that
were different about black life in America back then.
That got me to
thinking: Back when we were Negroes in the 1950s, “only 9 percent of black
families with children were headed by a single parent,” according to “The Black
Family: 40 Years of Lies” by Kay Hymowitz. “Black children had a 52 percent
chance of living with both their biological parents until age 17. In 1959,
“only 2 percent of black children were reared in households in which the mother
never married.” But now that we're African-Americans, according to Hymowitz,
those odds of living with both parents had “dwindled to a mere 6 percent” by
the mid-1980s. And check this, in Bibb County, more than 70 percent of the
births in the African-American community are to single mothers.
Back when we
were Negroes and still fighting in many parts of the country for the right to
vote, we couldn't wait for the polls to open. We knew our friends, family and
acquaintances had died getting us the ballot. Dogs and fire hoses were used to
keep us away and still we came. But now that we're African-Americans, in a city
of 47,000 registered -- predominately black voters -- more than 30,000 didn't
show up at the polls July 19.
Back when we
were Negroes, we had names like Joshua, Aaron, Paul, Esther, Melba, Cynthia
and Ida. Now that we are African Americans, our names are bastardized
versions of alcohol from Chivas to Tequila to C(S)hardonney. And chances the
names have an unusual spelling.
Back when we
were Negroes, according to the Trust For America's Health's “F as in
Fat,” report, “only four states had diabetes rates above 6 percent. ... The
hypertension rates in 37 states about 20 years ago were more than 20 percent.”
Now that we're African-Americans, that report shows, “every state has a hypertension
rate of more than 20 percent, with nine more than 30 percent. Forty-three
states have diabetes rates of more than 7 percent, and 32 have rates above 8
percent. Adult obesity rates for blacks topped 40 percent in 15 states, 35
percent in 35 states and 30 percent in 42 states and Washington, DC
Back when we
were Negroes, the one-room church was the community center that everyone used.
Now that we're African-Americans, our churches have lavish -- compared to
back-in-the-day churches -- community centers that usually sit empty because
the last thing the new church wants to do is invite the community in.
Back when we
were Negroes, we didn't have to be convinced that education was the key that
opened the lock of success, but now that we're African-Americans, more than 50
percent of our children fail to graduate high school. In Bibb County last year,
the system had a dropout rate of 53.4 percent.
Back when we
were Negroes, the last thing a young woman wanted to look like was a harlot and
a young man a thug, but now that we're African-Americans, many of our young
girls dress like hootchie mamas and our young boys imitate penitentiary custom
and wear their pants below the butt line.
If I could
reverse all of the above by trading the term “African-American” for “Negro,”
what do you think I’d do?
I asked this
question because week after week, the ‘hetero’ men
in the barbershop seem to ALWAYS find
the need to talk about the women they been with that week or the women they
want to get with. I often wonder how women feel being nothing more than a ‘walking’ vagina. This past weekend
I had to point out to the barber that there was a young girl sitting in the
shop as they carried on their VERY LOUD conversation.
He then in turned said to me, ‘oh no
worries, she doesn’t know or understand what we are saying.’ Now bear
in mind this girl is about 11 years old so I think she understands PLENTY! Moreover, I can’t help but
wonder if things like this plant seeds in young girls that grow into women that
accept the FACT that
most ‘hetero’ men do NOTappreciate/respect them.
Is it an
oxymoron to identify men in general as sluts, or is it just karmically appropriate since these men have called and
treated women as sluts? If I were a woman, and looking for REAL love, am I to accept what is out there? Men
can be great, don’t get me wrong. Men are easier to bond with, but for some
reason MANY can’t seem to
bond with a woman beyond her genitals. Which makes me ask: are women stupid? They know the
game yet MANY of play with a losing
hand; I guess having a man’s attention (even
though it is for mostly sex) is better than having NO man @ all…
We all send
thousands of jokes through e-mail without a second thought. We share stories
about the ills of society. We allow the media to promote addictive substances,
material things that don't support our communities and even degrade the people
that are trying spread messages that are in the opposite direction of our
oppression/personal suppression. We even strive to separate us from us by
promoting products that do not support our people or uplift them. Is this
shame? Is this our way of trying to have a brighter shine? Is this personal
envy, jealously or hatred? Let's begin promoting things that we create from our
substance, things that bring material to create/support the structure in our
community and recognize the positive messages that we want to share without
condemning each other for things that we do not agree upon. Let's really begin
to spread the word.
THIS ENTRY IS AN
E-MAIL THAT WAS SENT TO ME & I WANTED TO GET YOUR THOUGHTS...PLEASE NOTE THAT
NOT ONE WORD WAS EDITED TO SWAY ANY FORM OF OPINION BELOW IS MESSAGE THAT
SPARKED THIS E-MAIL.
Am I the only one to find it extremely
amazing what with all the fucking, kinky fucking at that, not to mention all
the drugging they do, that the rates for Whites miraculously seem to stay
the same, while the rates for us Blacks steadily skyrocket, according
to various reports. Plus, when you consider the number of Whites who like
to have their Mandingo fantasies fulfilled in the arms of us "highly
diseased and infected" Blacks.....you'd think their infection rates would
rise just a little bit, but no, its just us Black folk. Could it be that more
Blacks go to clinics that file and report their findings, and more Whites go to
private doctors who may be golf buddies with their fathers, etc., and those
results are NOT being accurately documented and reported??? I just
refused to believe, that with as much as Whites do, the infection rates are
that vastly different. My thoughts, anyway....
The barbershop,
the smells of masculine tonics saturating a space filled with leather
chairs, displaying the latest edition of KING MAGAZINE; a place
where little boys become men, a place of STURDY moral character. A few weeks ago, I had the
pleasure of being inside the walls of a local barbershop along with a toddler
that was waiting for his first haircut. I sat and watched as the little boy was
taken to the chair. As soon as he was placed in the chair, the tears came. @
This point I was marveled that the barber was looking @ his crying in that he
must be a sissy or something manner. Rightly so, since the male species no
matter his age, is not supposed to whimper during his time in the barber chair.
As I sat there, watching everyone involved try to get the little boy to stop
crying, I couldn’t help but wonder, why
is a little boy being taught such a hard lesson about life @ such a tender age?
THIS WAS E-MAIL TO SO NATURALLY I
THOUGHT I'D SHARE IT WITH YOU...
The universe is more fair than we
might think, in that we get out of life what’s been put into it, even if that
is not guaranteed. A ‘semblance’ of love is a love that soon goes down the
toilet with only memories of yesteryear, and meaningless words of ‘fake
assurance’ that love’s still there.
Today we mourn the passing of a beloved old friend, Common Sense, who has
been with us for many years. No one knows for sure how old he was, since his
birth records were long ago lost in bureaucratic red tape.
He will be remembered as having cultivated such valuable lessons as:
Knowing when to come in out of the rain; why the early bird gets the worm; Life
isn't always fair; and maybe it was my fault.
Common Sense lived by simple, sound financial policies don't spend more
than you can earn) and reliable strategies (adults, not children, are in
charge).
His health began to deteriorate rapidly when well-intentioned but overbearing
regulations were set in place.
Reports of a 6-year-old boy charged with sexual harassment for kissing a
classmate; teens suspended from school for using mouth wash after lunch; and a
teacher fired for reprimanding an unruly student, only worsened his condition.
Common Sense lost ground when parents attacked teachers for doing the job
that they themselves had failed to do in disciplining their unruly children.
It declined even further when schools were required to get parental consent to
administer sun lotion or an Aspirin to a student; but could not inform parents
when a student became pregnant and wanted to have an abortion.
Common Sense lost the will to live as the churches became businesses; and
criminals received better treatment than their victims.
Common Sense took a beating when you couldn't defend yourself from a
burglar in your own home and the burglar could sue you for assault.
Common Sense finally gave up the will to live, after a woman failed to
realize that a steaming cup of coffee was hot. She spilled a little in her lap,
and was promptly awarded a huge settlement...
Common Sense was preceded in death, by his parents, Truth and Trust.
His wife, Discretion, his daughter, Responsibility, his son, Reason.
He is survived by his 4 stepbrothers; I Know My Rights; I Want It
Now;
Someone Else Is To Blame; I'm A Victim.
Not many attended his funeral because so few realized he was gone.
If you still remember him, pass this on. If not, join the majority and do
nothing.
I love cruising public restrooms. I know some guys think it's old-fashioned or dangerous, that there’s the Internet for hookups so I don't need to do that. But I can’t help myself. I love the rebellious act of using a public space to get off in. I love the nervous energy of the other guys who are there cruising too. I love showing off at a urinal (I’m big), and I love the quick, dirty, action that follows.
THIS E-MAIL WAS ADDRESSED TO THE YOUNG GAY MEN OUT THERE WHO SEEMS TO KNOW THAT BEAUTY FADES & DUMB IS FOREVER. SO I THOUGHT ABOUT THE MANY OLDER GAY MEN OUT THERE THAT FEEL THE STING OF THE AGING PROCESS IN THE GAY COMMUNITY & I THOUGHT THIS WAS A NICE WAY OF LETTING THEM KNOW THAT OLDER MEN ARE STILL HUMAN!
I GOT THIS EMAIL & WONDERED WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO THIS PERSON: I have this situation that I would like some input on. There's this brother I've been kicking it wit for the last 2 1/2 years. To be completely honest our "relationship" started as a sexual thing. We met online and chatted for many months via the Internet and phone calls. We had an in person meeting and connected real well.
Her name is Katie Kirkpatrick, 21 yrs old. Next to her is her fiancé, Nick, 23.
This picture was taken prior to their wedding January 11th, 2005.
Katie has terminal cancer and spends hours in chemotherapy.
Here Nick awaits while she finishes one of the sessions...
Even in pain and dealing with her organs shutting down, with the help of morphine, Katie took care of every single part of the wedding planning.
Her dress had to be adjusted several times due to Katie 's constant weight loss.
An expected guest was her oxygen tank. Katie had to use it during the ceremony and reception.
The other couple in this picture is Nick's parents, very emotional with the wedding and to see theirson marrying the girl he fell in love when he was an adolescent.
Katie , in a wheel chair listening to her husband and friends singing to her.
In the middle of the party, Katie had to rest for a bit and catch her breath.
The pain does not allow her to stand for long period of time.
Katie died 5 days after her wedding. To see a fragile woman dress as bride with a beautiful smilemakes you think... happiness is always there within reach, no matter how long it lasts.....
lets enjoy life and don't live a complicated life. Life is too short.
Work as if it was your first day.
Forgive as soon as possible.
Love without boundaries..
Laugh without control
and never stop smiling.
THIS WAS E-MAILED TO ME & I THOUGHT I WOULD SHARE IT WITH YOU...WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS?
Anal sex is increasingly common today, partly due to the lack of over standing (and understanding) of its ramifications and partly because of the contemporary tendency to do everything that was once considered taboo. First of all, let's consider the divine function of the anus. Yes, the anus has a divine function (just like every other organ in or on the human body), and it also has a beauty and sensitivity of its own. The only part of the human body that is considered unclean. The anus is the - excretory opening at the end of the alimentary canal. The feces from the colon makes it way from the intestines to the rectum and out via the anus.Therefore, the anus is an excretory organ or an "eliminative" channel (being an extension of the colon). Its divine function is to release "waste" from the body.
Science, nature, and common sense tells us that the anus is an eliminative organ and not a penetrative organ, unlike the female vagina, which is undoubtedly penetrative in nature. Unlike the female vagina (yoni), the anus cannot stretch in size without tearing the skin, cannot naturally and conveniently accommodate any size penis, and does not naturally lubricate itself to accommodate and facilitate a stroking penis. The female vagina has three layers of skin to accommodate stretching and to prevent itself from tearing, and has muscles that contract allowing pleasure and orgasm. unlike the anus which only has one layer of skin, which when torn due to being stretched (from constant penetration) , releases bacteria, bleeds and cannot experience an orgasm.
Anal intercourse tends to stretch and greatly weaken the anal sphincter muscles, producing energy loss. Anal penetration greatly disturbs the balance of vital forces in the body. The downward-moving vital principle of the anus is greatly reversed due to penetration and can lead to seriousdigestive problems, constipation, irregularity (of bowel movements),clots (causing strokes) and ultimately to cancer of the rectum.Many homosexual men over 40 who constantly take it or get it "up the butt" have to wear diaper-like products or plugs (tampons) to catch their fecal waste liquids that drip from their loose and weakened anus.
As an organ of excretion, the anus and rectal passage always contain traces of bacterial waste. A person is in danger of infection through anal insertion and can also suffer severe tissue damage, bacteria or strokes. If a man is on the DL and engages in NORMAL sex afterward, the dangerous possibility exists that bacteria will be transferred from the anus to the innermost part of the vagina (yoni) of the woman.(even after washing with soap and water bacteria and fecal waste is still present). Bleach and Hand Sanitizer is the only way of getting rid of fecal waste and bacteria. Many men engage in licking of the anus and then sucking of the penis and or kissing.
Many people are curious as to why many black men engage in anal intercourse today. Well, for most of these men, they find it necessary to offer every bodily orifice to their lover as a symbol of their complete surrender and commitment. Curiosity, wanting to engage in a new sexual experience and the psychological desire to be punished are also variables to be considered.
Many men want to perform anal intercourse on another man as a sign of domination. You will find that most men who want to engage in anal intercourse have either a sexual deficiency complex, low self-esteem, male domination complex, demeaning attitude towards women; are incapable of loving, and/or feel weak as males in society. And I'm quite sure for many males that curiosity and wanting to experience a new sexual experience is involved. These kinds of males operate on a very low frequency and most are unconscious pertaining to universal consciousness.
SO I GOT THIS VERY INTERESTING E-MAIL YESTERDAY THAT I COULDN'T BEAR TO FINISH...NOT JUST BECAUSE OF THE BAD ENGLISH, BUT BECAUSE IT WAS SAYING CRAP THAT I WOULD NEVER ACCEPT! ANYONE THAT KNOWS ME, KNOWS THAT I AM A MAN THAT DANCES TO HIS OWN BEAT & I DON'T NEED ANYONE TO TELL ME HOW THEY FEEL I SHOULD LIVE MY LIFE...BUT READ THE E-MAIL & LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK...PLEASE NOTE THAT THIS E-MAIL WASN'T DOCTORED OR CHANGED IN ANY SHAPE OR FORM...
Hello, friend! My name is Gregory. Excuse me, that I cannot address to you your name because I have not this possibility. I ask to read everything to the end - this is very important for you. I was a gay. But I am free now! For me all changed, when Jesus Christ - my Lord Gad, entering for everybody on earth on a cross, to atone the sins of everybody, became reality for me, by foundation of my life. I plead with you, brother, correct a way it, lay knees before That, Who humiliating Itself to the level by man- God, creating Heaven and earth and creating a man "man on appearance to It, on appearance God created him; created a man and woman them" (Being 1: 27), came on earth in a human body, that dead on Golgotha cross, to become expiation for sins still human, and, being revived third day by His Celestial Father, to sit to the right from Gad-Father on His Throne! More 2000 years ago "Jealousy of Lord Savaof did make it!" "God so has loved the world that has given the Son only-begotten that everyone believing in Him was not lost, but had the Eternal Life!" (The Gospel from John 3:16) That there is a love! "The love does Suffers a long time, creates favor, love does not envy, the love is not extolled, is not proud, does not commit excesses, does not search for the, is not irritated, does not think of harm, does not rejoice to a lie, and Rejoices to true ; all covers, to all trusts, all hopes, all transfers. The love never ceases, though both prophecies will stop, and languages will stop, and the knowledge will be abolished". (1 Message of Apostle Paul to Corinthians 13:4-8) The LOVE has been crucified for you on Golgotha! Jesus has told:" There is no more that love as if who will put the soul for the friends. You are My friends, if execute that I give a precept to you. I any more do not name you slaves for the slave does not know that its mister does; but I named you friends because has told to you everything that heard from My Father. "(The Gospel from John 15:13-15) I Beg you, friend, incline your knees in the Face God," cry and be distressed "," go in beggar tear clothes and strew a head ashes." "You are not deceived: neither fornicators, nor that serve idols, nor adulterers, nor effeminate by perversion, nor men, which have sexual intercourses with male, thieves, nor the covetous, drunkards, nor reviles, predators — Lord's Kingdom do not inherit!” (1 Message of Apostle Paul to Corinthians 6 9-10), for the muscle of Dominical Hand was not reduced to rescue subdued by Spirit!" It is blissful, to whom lawlessnesses are released, and whose sins are covered! The person to whom the Lord will not make a sin is blissful, and in whose spirit there is no slyness!" (David's psalm 31:1-2) the Way on which there is now you and went earlier I, conducts straight in the Hell to eternal torments and sufferings and I do not want, that you were comprehended by this malicious fate.
What reasons of that, friend, what occurs to you? Whether you know it? And they are that:" For the anger God from the sky on everyone dirty and a lie people, suppressing true lie opens. For that it is possible to know about God, it is obvious for them because God showed to them. For invisible It, Its eternal force and the Deity, from world creation through examining of creations are visible, so they are meek. But as they, having known God, have not glorified Him as God, and have not rendered thanks, but they have fussed in the their speculations, and their foolish heart was saddened; naming itself wise, have gone mad, and glory of imperishable God have changed in an image similar to the perishable person, both birds, and four-footed, and a reptile, - that and was betrayed by their God in lusts of their hearts nasty things so they have profaned bodies. They have replaced God's True with lie, both worshipped, and creatures instead of the Creator Who is blest in eyelids, Amen. Therefore their God to shameful passions has betrayed: their women have replaced the natural use unnatural; Similarly and men, having left the natural use of a female, were kindled by lust against each other, men on men doing shame and receiving in to itself due punishment for the error. And as they did not care to have God in reason their God to has betrayed dirty mind- to do not correct dirty actions so they are executed any lie, fornication, slyness, a self-interest, rage, are executed envy, murder, conflicts, a deceit, having evil customs, Filled with malicious speech, slanderers, God haters, offenders, self-praises, are proud, inventive on harm, are disobedient to parents, are reckless, perfidious, ignorant love, are irreconcilable, ungracious. They know just court God that doing such affairs are worthy death; however not only them do, but also doing approve." (To Romans of Apostle Paul 1:18-32) - I have passed the message through it. In spite of the fact that I was not the atheist, I was very far from God, did not give a proper attention to the God's Word. Therefore have comprehended, was, me the same problems, as at you now. But not god has created you such, and a sin of disobedience to God. I will try to explain to you, friend, still some moments. Whether you understand the reason of what you pulls to unisex relations? How you understand the fragment of the Writing resulted above? All reason, I wrote, that people, having known God, "do not think" to have Him in the heart, leave Him. It can result as personal recreancy of the person when results, so to say, "do not keep itself waiting long, and also deviations of ancestors. Here the two first Precepts which God gave still to Moisey "works ": "I the Lord, your God Who has deduced you from the earth Egyptian, from the slavery house; yes there will be no at you other gods before My person. Do not do to itself an idol and that any image that in the sky above, and that on the earth below, and that in water below the earth; do not worship to them and do not serve them, for I the Lord, your God, God the adherent punishing children for fault of fathers to the third and fourth sort, hating Me, and creating favour to thousand sorts loving Me and observing My precepts. Do not say a name of the Lord, your God; it is vain, for the Lord will not leave without that punishment who says Its name in vain". (The Outcome 20:2-7 and 5 Moisey’s Book: Reiteration of Law 6-11) It occurs not because God malicious as can seem at first sight. Simply receding from the Lord, the person makes room for a devil in the life which perverts all fine in the person. Accordingly, people cease to follow the decision of God:" Set the young man at the beginning of its way and he will grow old and will not get off! "(Parables of Solomon 22: 6) Cease to learn their children to love God! But “only I know intentions what I have about you, the Lord, intentions in the blessing, instead of on harm speaks to give you future and hope.”(Book of Prophet Jeremy 29:11) as "God is Love!”(John's 1 message 4:8) Both that aspects are take place in my case.
Anyway, the brother, at you is possibility to interrupt this damnation which has hung over them come "to bear worthy fruits of the Repentance" to the Lord: to confess sincerely and to leave this nasty thing of one hollow relations as I have once made! Sodom and Gomora have been wiped off the face of the earth because of that nasty thing that their men created, "being raised by a flesh" on each other. It has so absorbed inhabitants of these cities that the Lord has not found among them and 10 righteous persons, when has descended to ruin these cities! Avram before it begged about mercy for these people. The necessary quantity of righteous persons for the pardon of cities with initial 50 has decreased gradually to 10 in the course of entreaty, and their God has not found! The same fate expected also Nenevia after a while, but she "has confessed from the sermon Iona" and has been pardoned! On True I speak to you, the brother:" everyone who will call the Name of Lord will escape! "(The Gospel from Galatians 11:12) Is written:" the Celestial Kingdom undertakes by force and putting efforts admires Him! "(The gospel from Galatians 11:12) Force in the Sacred blood spilt for you on Golgotha, but is necessary to struggle much to win," till it bleeds to battle to a sin, "-" winning God willing to taste from the Life Tree that among Paradise God! "(John's revelations 2:7) Jesus has told:" Truly, Truly I speak to you if who is not born from above, cannot see God's Kingdom, (….) truly, truly I speak to you if who is not born from water and Spirit, cannot enter in God's Kingdom "(the Gospel from John 3: 3, 5) It is very important, the brother, - is written also:" the Spirit of the person transfers its infirmity; and the amazed spirit - who can support it? "(Solomon's Parables 18:15) - spirit amazed with a sin can cure parables of Solomon can only God -" All I can in Jesus Christ strengthening me "(the message to Philippians of Apostle Paul 4:13) and" there is no other Name under the sky, given people to which had for them to Escape! "(Acts of Apostles 4:12)" Appeal to Me and I will hear you both I will answer you and I will show you that great that you did earlier not see!" (Book of prophet Jeremy 33:3) speaks Lord. - sincere the repentance before God when the person recognises the negligibility and powerlessness before God, recognises the sinfulness and asks It to be the mister of all his life, - there is a birth from God's Spirit , the Birth is more exact there is a result of a sincere repentance.
The birth from water this water christening - contract signing good luck to live and serve It with pure and kind conscience. To you I will not say to you, the brother, what to you becomes easier at once and will not be and there will be no temptations - the Satan will be faster is not interested in that you have won a sin - it will throw the big forces against you even more difficult - but what you will do – will have fights with a sin or to obey it? - God speaks: "Arrive on Spirit and will not execute flesh desire!" (The message to Galatians of Apostle Paul 5: 16), that is, executing the Dominical Word, you will not sin. I can tell that probably there will be also falling, that is a condition when the person not in a condition to cope with a sin. I endured it, but you despair surrender, admit before God the offences and the best friend - the person to which you can trust completely that it will not incur it as a gossip another and not begins to do anything such that you have again sinned, and to do the utmost to help you to stand: it is written: "Admit the friend before the friend offences and pray the friend for the friend to recover: the strengthened prayer of the just much can." (The message of Apostle Jacob 5:16) because "if we profess our sins He (God), being it is true and just, will forgive us our sins and will clear us of any lie." (John's 1 Message 1:9) - "the righteous person seven times will fall and will rise, the sinner once will fall in death!" (Parables of Solomon 24:16) God tells: "search for Me when it is possible to find Me, call Me when I close!" Listen to a good advice: search sincerely for believing people in Lord Jesus Christ in Nassau, where do you live, to be with them in the general prayer and dialogue, studying of the God's Word - Bibles, - that your Belief became stronger: "the Belief from hearing, and hearing from the God's Word " (the Message to Romans of Apostle Paul 10:17), the Belief Prayer cures spirit, soul and a body of the person. God speaks: "there where two or three are collected in My Name (for the sake of dialogue with Me), there and I among them!" (The Gospel from Matthew 18:20) And still, the brother, I ask you: "darings from itself all dirty" - break off any acquaintances to people which push you on a sin, get rid of all your house, connected with a pornography of any sort if is, differently it will be more difficult to you to be pulled out from all it: there are three things on which all sin human is based:" Lust of a flesh, lust of eyes and pride everyday "I Beg you, friend, make a correct choice! Not be indifferent to the future! Learn Lord's fear to find wisdom, and having found wisdom, you" learn True and the True will make you free! "(The Gospel from John 8:32) Jesus has told:" I am the Way True and the Life; nobody comes to the Father, as soon as through Me! "(The Gospel from John 14:6)" Be firm and courageous!" "With fear and trembling make the Rescue!" (The message to Philippians of Apostle Paul 2: 12) Force of BLOOD of the CHRIST is perfect! Strengthen the brothers when you will be screwed!" "So, if the Son releases you will be truly free!" (The Gospel from John 8:36) Lets the Lord will bless you! I will pray for you!
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