HAVE YOU EVER NOTICED THAT WHEN YOU ‘COME OUT’ TO SOMEONE THEY HAVE A LOT OF QUESTIONS? FROM THE WHY TO THE HOW…BUT WHEN THAT ALL SETTLES THEY ARE SHOCKED TO FIND OUT THAT WE GAY MEN CAN HAVE SEX IN THE SAME POSITIONS HETEROS CAN…SO THIS BLOG ENTRY IS FOR THEM & THOUGH I WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO POST EVERY POSITION THAT WE UTILIZE, THEY CAN FIND THE REST ON THE INTERNET. SO HERE THE THREE (3) MOST COMMONLY USED SEXUAL POSITIONS FOR GAY MEN:
STANDING – The standing positions are pleasurable and comfortable and give both partners a full opportunity for erotic involvement. Some are rather athletic and require practice, flexibility and strength. So here we have the WILLOWS BENT IN THE BREEZE. The receptive partner bends over, perhaps supported by a chair, table or bed, while his lover approaches from behind and penetrates him. The active lover can then lean over his partner and grasp something (the headboard, perhaps, or a doorknob) that will allow him harder, deeper thrusts. He can also reach around and stimulate his lover’s lingam or nipples. Kissing is difficult in this position, although ear nibbling and neck kissing are possible.
SITTING – In the sitting position it’s possible to enjoy many variations on the theme. Employing different locations and items of furniture provides the opportunity for a wide variety of sensations to be experienced. In this position, the person underneath can, to some extent do the thrusting, but in most cases, it is the man on top who controls the action. The picture above depicts the receiving partner lowers himself on his partner's member while facing away, then seats himself in the manner of an emperor on a throne. This position can be the MOST pleasurable for both persons involved.
LYING DOWN – This involves the passive lover lying on his stomach, perhaps supported in the loins by pillows so that his buttocks are raised. His lover drapes himself over him and penetration is achieved. This allows much room for variation, and changes of tempo of the sexual experience. So here we have the receptive partner lying on his back with his legs up (normally supported by the penetrator) so that his anus can be exposed for a deep felt penetration. This position is a favorite of mine because it allows for a variation of movements and angles; and this position somehow makes the thrust feel even better (if that were possible).
Isn't a trip how when you tell someone something how they have a million and 1 questions. But then you ask them something personal and they're all appauled! Get over it or get outta mine!
ReplyDeleteLOL always the educator. with a touch of freak lol
ReplyDeleteThis reminds of when queer as folk had just come out and how surprised my ex-coworkers were of the sexual positions the characters engaged in. Not surprisingly their ignorance could not allow them to see us engaging in sex in a manner that was somehow not animalistic and barbaric but instead very similar to what they engaged in. Some were quite taken aback and quite shocked while others were amused.
ReplyDeleteSo i applaud you for doing your part to educate and inform the masses that our sexual activity looks pretty much the same as our heterosexual counterparts. By the way... Where is the doggie style,i guess the standing is a variation of it but i am sure the kneeling one is quite popular. But again kudos to you, another great post!!!!
TRU3LOGIC - THAT'S ME (^_^) FOREVER THE EDUCATOR...
ReplyDeleteDAMN, I FORGOT HOW GOOD GAY SEX CAN BE... THIS CELIBACY THING IS KILLING ME...
ReplyDeleteI guess its the ignorance that makes the hetero population think that we have sex in such a different manner. Thanx for the lesson lol
ReplyDeleteI just printed this out ;-)
ReplyDeleteOh, no you didn't! I love it!
ReplyDeleteOh ja, i like the pictures and now i know what i like to do on christmas!
ReplyDeleteummm, the sitting position looks like it hurts...but anyways.... I knew that gay men could have sex in many positions...
ReplyDeleteSO THOSE WERE NOT MY QUESTIONS IN MY MIND. My mind is always thinking how is it determines who gets who...and how is the one being F*K get satisfied.
Oh sorry didnt mean to get so personal and blast all that...but dont answer here...hit me on (you know where)
ReplyDeleteI have found that most people I know are more interested in the HOW part it. I guess at some point I was also a little curious but I made it a point to learn.
ReplyDeleteWhen I started reading a lot of stuff on the net, I started with About.com and I learned a lot about gay men and issues that concern them. It was at this point thatI realised that there wasn't much difference between gays and heteros.
Then I found more blogs and other sites, sometimes talking about gay sex and showing the how part of it.
But can I just add that that post you did sometime back about anal sex (was it about anal sex?) changed my thinking forever. It was like an epiphany of some sorts.
MY NEW FAVOURITE QUOTES
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'So here we have the WILLOWS BENT IN THE BREEZE'
'Then (he) seats himself in the manner of an emperor on a throne'
Sooo, you've just told us what your favourite position is.
ReplyDeleteAre you a top, bottom or versatile?
JUST KIDDING! (don't get mad okay?)
OSSIE – WHICH IS YOUR FAVORITE?
ReplyDeleteCASH S – THANKX MAN…SPREAD THE WORD!
ReplyDeleteLOSOJOSNUEVOS – OH YES I DID!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteOYIN – WELL IT IS SIMPLE WE BOTH PLAY ROCK PAPERS SISCORS…JUST KIDDING…IT IS JUST SEX & MOSTLY IT DEPENDS ON WHO YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE SEX WITH BECAUSE DIFFERENT MEN BRING OUT DIFFERENT THINGS IN YOU…KNOW WHAT I MEAN? TOO LATE ON THE PERSONAL TIP & IT’S QUITE FINE…THIS BLOG IS ABOUT QUESTIONS N’ ANSWERS…
ReplyDeleteSHALLOTTE – WHAT AM I GOING TO DO WITH YOU? I AM GLAD THAT YOU TOOK THE TIME TO LEARN ABOUT HOW WE DO WHAT WE DO…WHEN IT COMES TO SEX I AM ALL THINGS TOP, BOTTOM, VERSATILE (WITHIN MY RELATIONSHIP THAT IS…)
ReplyDeleteYou asked Ossie what his favourite position is. If I can also dip my finger and lick from the honey pot...
ReplyDeleteLike he mentioned, the doggie doggie is quiet popular. I say count me in as well!
OH YES. THIS CHRISTIAN HETERO GIRL FINDS TWO MALES ENGAGED IN THESE NOCTURNAL ACTIVITIES QUIET...?SHALL WE SAY, EXCITING?
WHO SAID GAY SEX IS NOT APPEALING TO THE HETEROS?
LMFAO...I LOVE IT!!! those heteros..lmao.
ReplyDeleteHey Jamar...Im hetero...and my favorite is the doggy...lol. Im like Shallotte
ReplyDeleteMy favorite position is the lying doing position (lying on my back). That's the best!!!!!!!! I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!! RIGHT BABY!!!!!!!! WE BOTH LOVE THIS POSITION....
ReplyDeleteYou better talk that sex talk!!! You's a big ol' nasty freak. LOL!!! A man after my own heart. It feels good to be in company of those who understand you.
ReplyDeleteMy fav -- Doggy, with that deep arch in the back. ;-)~
LOLLOLLOL This post was BAD!!!!
ReplyDelete"...grasp something (the headboard, perhaps, or a doorknob)"
Too funny!
I love how you try be all professional gay loving manual!
Hall of Famed!
Now that's what I'm talking about. Educate those heteros. I can tell you stories on the silly questions I get from them regarding sex, such as if the top is the man and the bottom is the woman. Just pisses me off!!!
ReplyDeleteLMAO... preach buddy lmao lol...
ReplyDeleteI'm late but just to add
ReplyDeleteThere are soooo many more positions that can be added to this list as well
®‡Ã¸ - CAN YOU EVEN REMEMBER WHAT SEX IS?
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