OLDIE, BUT GOODIE: ¿WTF IS DATING?

Tweet

THIS ENTRY MAKES ME SMILE BECAUSE THINKING ABOUT MY PAST & THE MEN THAT ASSUMED CERTAIN ABOUT WHAT WE WERE DOING WHEN WE CLEARLY AGREED ON WHAT WAS/IS GOING ON JUST MAKES ME SMILE. IT IS SO AMAZING HOW QUICKLY WE LABEL ANOTHER OUR THIS OR THAT & IN MOST CASES IT EVEN MORE AMAZING HOW WE SKIP DATING ALL TOGETHER & JUST SLIDE RIGHT INTO A RELATIONSHIP. NONETHELESS, I THINK THAT WE NEED TO HAVE A  CLEAR UNDERSTANDING OF OURSELVES BEFORE WE ATTEMPT THE COURTSHIP PROCESS. WHEN I DATED & IT WAS MORE THAN ONE GUY @ A TIME (OF COURSE THEY KNEW ABOUT IT) I DID WHAT OTHERS CONSIDERED WHORE-ISH, BUT I SAW/SEE IT AS AN IMPORTANT STEP IN FINDING THAT ONE SPECIAL PERSON. 

How does one decipher what DATING is when we live in world where the UNSPOKEN carries a lot of power? DATING is supposed to afford us the opportunity to COURT and GET TO KNOW an individual whose COMMON interest is each other. Yet what many of us call DATING is actually NOT and we are so far from the concept that it makes me want to SCREAM! So If DATING is, any SOCIAL ACTIVITY performed as a pair or even a group with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a partner in an INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP or as a SPOUSE and the word refers to the act of agreeing on a time and "date" when a pair can meet and engage in some social activity; ¿WTF IS DATING? 

REMEMBER, REMEMBER THE 5th OF NOVEMBER

Tweet

Beneath this mask there is more than flesh. 

Beneath this mask there is an idea, 

Mr. Creedy, and ideas are bulletproof. - 

\

The Gunpowder Treason and plot;

I see of no reason why Gunpowder Treason

Should ever be forgot.

¿R 2 HEADS BETTER THAN 1?

Tweet

2 HEADS...

¿OR?

...1

¡LABELS, LABELS, LABELS!

Tweet

LABELS ARE FILING. LABELS ARE FOR CLOTHING. LABEL ARE NOT FOR PEOPLE. - MARTINA NAVRATILOVA

¡POLLS DO NOT VOTE, PEOPLE DO!

Tweet

A woman in a hot air balloon realized she was lost.

She lowered her altitude and spotted a man in a boat below. She shouted to him, "Excuse me, can you help me? I promised a friend I would meet him an hour ago, but I don't know where I am." The man consulted his portable GPS and replied, "You're in a hot air balloon, approximately 30 feet above ground elevation of 2,346 feet above sea level. You are at 31 degrees, 14.97 minutes north latitude and 100 degrees, 49.09 minutes west longitude.

She rolled her eyes and said, "You must be an Obama Democrat."

"I am," replied the man. "How did you know?"

"Well," answered the balloonist, "everything you told me is technically correct. But I have no idea what to do with your information, and I'm still lost. Frankly, you've not been much help to me."

The man smiled and responded, "You must be a Republican."

"I am," replied the balloonist. "How did you know?"

"Well," said the man, "you don't know where you are -- or where you are going. You've risen to where you are, due to a large quantity of hot air. You made a promise you have no idea how to keep, and you expect me to solve your problem. 
You're in exactly the same position you were in before we met, but somehow, now it's my fault."