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If I may confess: I am a mere CONNOISSEUR of all things that involve GIVING personal sexual pleasure. I feel that the ability to give sexual self-pleasure is a powerful AND natural activity that PROMOTES a hearty well-being. Doctors say it HEIGHTENS the senses, EXERCISES the body and STRENGTHENS the self-esteem. However, there are SO many of us that were taught to avoid and find shame in the innocent experience of giving our bodies pleasure, so imagine the genitals…I don’t know about you, but for me this NATURAL activity gives my body satisfaction, so why should I deny myself the pleasure? Isn’t it probably the safest sexual activity out there? Especially if you are single…However if you are like me, very much involved AND LOVING IT, is it wrong if I make the lizard puke when I have someone to help me with that? There is NOTHING wrong with the sex life of my relationship AND the fact that I can give AND receive pleasure even after indulging myself does that some how take away from my relationship OR does mean I LOVE a challenge? So given the fact that masturbation feels GOOD and it is my way of giving myself a little something something on the side. And if you add the fact that I’ve been doing this from my pre-teen years, don’t I OWE it to myself to continue? JUST THOUGHT I’D ASK…
Wow I'm the first to respond! I feel like virgin all over again.....anyway. Maturbation is a very sensitive topic in a RELATIONSHIP. Some consider it cheating, but then again whom are you cheating with? Yourself? I guess it all has to do with the material u use for your mental stimulation. Well like you said, if it doesn't take away from your regular sexualy relations with your mate, then you do you.....
ReplyDeleteERRYTING COOL - I WAS WONDERING WHO WAS GONNA BE THE FIRST TO BUST ON THIS ONE...
ReplyDeleteI think the whole masturbation issue while in a relationship is somewhat of a control issue. You get the "well you can't do it if I am not there or if I am not on the phone" line. If someone is that insecure then they have a problem within themselves.
ReplyDeleteNot a good look...Its 2009
Make the lizard puke?!
ReplyDeleteMake the lizard puke, my boy!!!! lol.
ReplyDeleteNah, me and the hubby don't have problem with masturbation. I do it... he does it.. no big deal. Enjoy it. :)
LONGOVERDO - I AGREE WITH YOU...
ReplyDeleteKA-OS - YEAH AIN'T THAT CUTE?
ReplyDeleteDUSTY BOOT - THAT'S WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT
ReplyDeleteHaving never been in a long term relationship, I didn't even realize this was an issue! But I'd like to think that the other guy would understand that "Dang I'm horny, I'm gonna jack off" guy instinct.
ReplyDeleteAs Woody Allen wisely said in one of his flicks: "at least masturbation is sex with someone I love."
ReplyDeleteSo, get yo stroke awn!
One.
There is Nothing Wrong With Self Love....
ReplyDeleteEveryone Does It.... Some Are just afraid to admit....
RAY AVITO - NOT EVERYONE UNDERSTANDS THAT
ReplyDeleteMOANERPLICITY - THAT WOODY ALLEN IS A SMART MAN AIN'T HE?
ReplyDeletePRIMO - SHHH...THEY MIGHT HEAR YOU SPILLING THE TRUTH...
ReplyDeleteOne of my best friends swore he didn't make the lizard puke for years....I mean really...we all do. It feels great, b/c you know just how you like it. And it ain't cheatin. Me and my hubby do it together and separate. No sense in stopping something you did b4 u really knew why it puked...
ReplyDeleteDo you....
THE CPA DOC - OF COURSE I DO...
ReplyDeleteAm I too late? I was soo busy yesterday, AAANNYYYWAAAY...!
ReplyDeleteNow let me tell you a little about meself, if I may????
Can I say 'making the lizard puke' USED to be one of my favourite things to do? (Okay, maybe in my case it ain't gonna be a lizzy. laawwd, the things we hear!) I don't do it so much anymore.
I mean now that I'm a preacher-in-waiting & all, ya know, I got to set an example. Issues of the flesh don't occupy half my time no more (^_^).
Anyway, where was I? Oh yes, I was telling you about meself. Now I was what you could call 'highly sexed', so to speak. But I never went 'round with men & all, so you know, I would do the deed meself.
In fact, several times a day & guess where I liked doing it? At work! In the ladies! (or is that toilets, or restrooms?). I mean my mind was on sex so much, that I would spend a lot of time writing short fantasy stories around this topic & I would email them to boyfriend of the day. I was good at this sort of thing. But not anymore. I've tried couple of times to unblock my mind & come up with some uplifting stuff, but... oh well, I gave up on that now.
I keep losing track. Sorry. So yes, I would write fantasy stories & email them to boyfriend, to uplift his mood, as it were. I'd be so half-way to heaven meself cooking up a story that everything would be a mess down south & I'd need to dash to the ladies. Once I get there, off comes the pants, then the underwear, & on all fours I would go.....
I better stop here. Too much info.
I love it, it's safe and healthy
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing with pleasuring one self. It is perfectly healthy and natural. As with everything else if it becomes so much so that it interferes with your sexual relationship with your partner then it becomes unhealthy. So have fun,pleasure yourself but hey remember not at the expense of sex with your partner.
ReplyDeleteHell yeah you owe it to urself....as long as its not stopping anything with ur sexual relationship wit ur partner i dont see the issue. Hell i love all of me. and i love me quite fequently i might add...lol....shit u know i even like for people to watch lol
ReplyDeleteI'd rather my patner jack his trade then go out and get jacked up.
ReplyDeleteIt's healthy and serves it's purpose when your partner is not in the mood.
MISS SHALLOTTE – I LOVE HOW OPEN YOU ARE…DON’T CHANGE…
ReplyDeleteWONDER MAN – IT CERTAINLY IS HUH?
OSSIE – UH-HUH
TRU3LOGIC – YOU LIKE PPL TO WATCH? I HAVE A BUSINESS PROPOSITION FOR YA…L(O)L…
LANGSTON BALDWIN – I LOVE YOUR TAKE ON IT…
I don't see anything wrong with masturbation. It is what it is!
ReplyDeleteMy partner actually enjoys watching me pleasure myself. What's better than that!! LOL
ACOUSTIC SOUL - NOW THAT'S WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteI AGREE WITH MOANERPLICITY. THAT WAS FUNNY. NOTHING WRONG WITH TAKING OUT THE MEAT AND LETTING THE JUICES FLOW. SUCH A STRESS RELIEVER. LIFE IS HARD ENOUGH.
ReplyDeleteI really think it's OK
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