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I met a guy a few weeks ago. I took him home and we had great sex. A few nights later we had even better, hotter sex.
After we did it the second time he told me he didn't want a boyfriend. That's great, because I don’t want one either. I just want a hot friend with benefits. But ever since that second night he hasn’t responded to my calls, texts or e-mails.
I don't get it. He said he had fun and he said we could do it again, but now he won't get in touch with me.
Why doesn't he call back?
Could it be that you possibly gave him some signs that u were looking for one?!
ReplyDeleteBecause friends with benefits is a myth. Someone eventually becomes attached. Therefore, it is better-if you want to just fuck around--to not do so with the same people repeatedly.
ReplyDeleteSee, I think you are missing the point. It is not you...it is him because he probably liked it so much and liked you as well and he is too emotionally immature to even have a fuck buddy. That is even too much of a commitment for him.
ReplyDeleteIn any case, I am sure that there are other fish in the sea.
saludos,
raulito
Mixed messages to say the least.
ReplyDeleteI think it's probably like Mechadude2001 said. I think he liked everything about you so much he was falling for you and didn't want to go there, but knew he wouldn't be able to stop himself if he kept seeing you.
ReplyDeleteNot to be rude and don't take it personally. It has NOTHING to do with emotions on his part. It was good sex yes and he is out having good sex with other guys too that is why he said he did not want a boyfriend. Friends with benefits is the most silliest idea (it becomes relationship-like if you are connecting several times) that takes commitment and communication. SMH
ReplyDeletePHUNK FACTOR - I THINK IT IS A POSSIBILITY THAT HE GAVE THAT IMPRESSION.
ReplyDeleteMECHADUDE2001 - CLASSIC HUH?
ReplyDeleteTODDY - THAT HAS BEEN THE STORY OF MY LIFE!
ReplyDeleteTRICKLE - YOU KNOW HOW GAY MEN GET WHEN GET A FISH?
ReplyDeleteCHET - VERY MIX!
ReplyDeleteRED CEDAR - NOTHING LIKE THE PULL OF A MAN HUH?
ReplyDeleteLANGSTON - YOU ARE SO RIGHT!
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