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FUNNY HOW THINGS WORK OUT HUH? YOU SEE I CHOOSE THE ENTRIES THAT I AM GOING TO RE-POST BY CLICK ON THE VIEW RANDOM POST LINK ON MY BLOG & IT LED ME HERE…I THINK THIS BLOG ENTRY CAME @ THIS TIME BECAUSE THE UNIVERSE KNOW THAT I RECENTLY DEALT WITH A PERSON THAT SOUGHT TO PUT THEIR SH!T ON ME…SO I HOPE THAT SOMEHOW, SOMEWAY THEY GET THE MESSAGE & CARRY ON WITH LIFE…THIS BLOG WAS WRITTEN DURING A TIME IN MY LIFE WHEN WHAT OTHERS SAID OR THOUGHT ABOUT ME REALLY MATTERED...I GOT A LOT OF FLACK FOR NOT TAKING OTHER PEOPLE’S SH!T SO I TOOK TO MY BLOG & LET THEM KNOW THAT THIS AIN’T THAT KINDA PARTY BECAUSE I FOUND OUT HOW TO BE MY OWN MAN!
The word B!TCH has long been in use to refer to an individual in contempt; this is seen as the most offensive title that one can place on another, even more provoking than that of a WHORE. This title is used in a negative way, referring to persons we encounter in everyday life that wear a permanent attitude and seek to destroy any and everything in their way. Nonetheless, do I seem like one of those persons that would destroy and make another life’s miserable? How can and do I have so much power to do such things? Moreover, what do you base this theory on? Is it because I call you out on the things that you do wrong against others and myself? On the other hand, is it the way I refuse to allow you treat me like a doormat? No matter, all I know is that I am not tolerant of many things, things that are unnecessary AND senseless.
SO CHOOSE YOUR LABEL CAREFULLY… I am the MAN that will not bang his head against the wall obsessing over your opinion. I totally understand that if someone does not approve of me, it is just one person’s opinion; therefore, it is of no real importance. I will never try to live up to anyone else’s idea of me. Don't HATE on me because I know I cherish who I am and believe that I am worth being treated the way I would like to be treated. I refuse to allow such a label to give truth to the lies you tell yourself. I will not become who you want me to be with your consent.
SO PLEASE SING MY PRAISES, I am not a B!TCH and I will NEVER be…No matter how happy you are to announce and give me that title, I will NEVER need your shot in the arm, my faith in myself is STRONG and your crown and thrown will not ever satisfy me.
You ain't told no lie with this....Powerful words this morning. Just the balm needed for those who are going through the storm this morning.
ReplyDeleteI think you should repost this on MALE Brother Clarq.
People that I work with that make comments about my sexuality behind my back wonder why I can walk around EVERY DAY with my head up, laugh, crack jokes and keep smiling. It's because I know that what they think about me doesn't amount to SHIT in my world. Personal growth allowed me to realize that it's the opinion of MYSELF that I carry around in my head each day that really matters. I draw power from the looks of amazement they give me as I smile while a fresh rumor is circulating about me. I REFUSE to let other people dump their "trash" (opinions about me) in my yard.
ReplyDeletegreat pictures, so nice!
ReplyDeleteSo very often we all use words we should not use during heated debates or arguments, but the worst word of them all is bitch, there are other derogatory words, but bitch can sparke a fight.
ReplyDeleteI once heard someone say "What other people think about me is none of my business."
I sooooo agree with Ian. Hey hun, miss ya
ReplyDeleteIAN – I FELT THE UNIVERSE SENT THIS ONE FOR YOU…
ReplyDeleteMIKE – I DON’T BLAME YA…LIKE MADONNA SAYS, “I AM NOT YOUR B!TCH, DON’T HANG YOUR SH!T ON ME.”
BJORNS – THANK YOU
CHET – YEAH THIS WORD HAS SPARKED MANY FIGHTS INDEED…THANKS FOR REMINDING ME OF THAT RUPAUL QUOTE… "What other people think about me is none of my business."
OYIN – GLAD YOU DO…HERE I AM BABES…