I've met many gay men over and I’ve always admired the gay men that lives the ‘you are only as young as you feel’ motto. I can appreciate a man that have a youthful outlook on life, but what happens when he is well past the age of being a bona fide adult? By society’s standards, he is an adult because he works; owns a home and pay all of his bills independently. But in his mind, he is STILL that oblivious 18-24 year-old looking for the next good time. How does he find the balance between the “kid” and the “adult” in him? Moreover, should he?