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I've met many gay men over and I’ve always admired the gay men that
lives the ‘you are only as young as you feel’
motto. I can appreciate a man that have a youthful outlook on life, but what happens when he is well past the
age of being a bona fide adult? By society’s standards, he is an adult
because he works; owns a home and pay all of his bills independently. But
in his mind, he is STILL that
oblivious 18-24 year-old looking for the next good time. How does he find the balance between the “kid” and
the “adult” in him? Moreover,
should he?
We live as who we are. As long as a man is honest, realistic, respectful and responsible, mental age and physical age make no difference. It's the heart and the capacity to love oneself and others that are important.
ReplyDeleteThis is a very provocative topic, my blogger brother! It gives us all something we need to ponder, for both ourselves and others.
I like the thought of all of being different and making up the various aspects of our community.
DeleteI agree with you both and strange as it may seem people especially those I've dated or socialized with has told me "grow up." Keep in mind I'm young at heart and very much a responsible MAN.
ReplyDeleteI know how responsible from your blog.
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