¡We can no longer be a bunch of empty minds living in critical times refusing to recognize real lies!

Thursday, 15 November 2007

GET SMART(ER)

Consider this scenario, you're struggling with a tricky problem at work and you had to do the embarrassing UM HI, routine to cover the fact that you forgot the name of the person you always bump into at the copy machine. Now you are at happy hour you've clammed up because someone mentioned GLOBAL WARMING and though it dimly rings a bell, you're not sure if it's a table sport or a place or some sort of noodle dish. If only you were smarter, you think. Not that you're dumb (we'd never call you that, at least not to your face). But wouldn't it be nice to have all the answers, a picture-perfect memory and the ability to astonish your friends or wow your boss with big words and bigger thoughts?

Most will agree that being smart is more than merely acing an IQ test, which typically measures a specific set of capabilities and assigns a score. Not that high scores don't matter for are tied to educational achievement and higher income, social status and even longer life. However in the real world, intelligence is much, much vaster and there are many varieties of it. The idea that there are multiple intelligences and that that people can be intelligent visually, musically, mathematically, athletically, interpersonally and intrapersonally was introduced by Harvard psychologist Howard Gardner. Still, whatever the type of intelligence, most people judge brainpower on practical factors, including how much you know, how well you can access what you know and what you do with it. Which still leaves us wondering how much can be expanded beyond the original biologic cards that you've been dealt. Research shows that although children's brains develop at an astonishing clip, that ability slows in adulthood. And clearly some people start off with much fuller decks than others. BUFF BODY, BUFF BRAIN – Here’s another reason to hit the gym: Staying active is good for the brain. Exercise improves the flow of blood throughout your body, including to your noggin, which helps it operate better. The effect is especially important as we age. In general, anything that leads you to be healthier, mentally or physically, leads to you being more alert, which leads you to being more attentive to the task at hand, which leads to better performance." That includes getting enough sleep and avoiding illness. Exercise also stimulates the creation of certain proteins, including brain-derived neurotrophic factors that are important for brain development and repair. Exercise improves your overall health, boosts your mood and keeps your weight down. EAT YER (BRAIN) FOOD – What you eat may also affect how you think. Omega-3 oils, for example, have been shown to aid in developing the brains of fetuses, babies and children. Some scientists believe they may have a similar effect on the brains of adults. And thanks to a new understanding of stem cells, there's hope that the nutrient choline may help adults. Until five years ago, researchers thought that we were done forming the brain by 4 or 5 years of age, but they realized that they are wrong. In the last decade, it's become clear that there are stem cells in the hippocampus that are dividing until you're in your 50s." That means there's a good chance that what's beneficial for brain development early in life might also help later, although probably to a lesser degree. CONCENTRATE N’ RELAX – If you thought you'd have to spend all day with your nose in a book to get smart, think again. There's evidence that meditation does wonders for the thinker. While studying the brain structure of people who practice Buddhist insight meditation regularly, Massachusetts General Hospital researchers found mediators have thicker brain matter in the area that deals with executive function, which refers to our ability to plan, think abstractly, understand rules and initiate appropriate responses. The study didn't look at whether those with thicker brain matter have higher-functioning brains, says lead study author Sara Lazar, but the team aims to find out. In the meantime, Richard Davidson, professor of psychology and psychiatry at the University of Wisconsin at Madison and director of the Waisman Laboratory for Brain Imaging and Behavior, offers plenty of support for meditation. Davidson has long studied the impact of meditation on attention and concentration, and has found that "even relatively short-term meditation practice can substantially change certain aspects of attention and change the brain systems that underlie it." Meditation can also help train people to regulate their emotions. Monks, it turns out, are masters of this, as Davidson found in a study. That inner calm "is extremely important for well-being and also very important for learning," he says. "If you are hyper-responsive to stress and to negative stimuli in your environment, it would interfere with your capacity to learn."

DISCOVER~EXPERIENCE~LEARN – Although we're still studying the brain and intelligence, "for centuries there have been ways known for making you smarter," Gordon says. "We call it education. It's been known to work." Cute. But Gordon points out that it's not just what you learn in school but that you learn how to think. "You learn about different approaches," he says. "And that's part of being intelligent." In addition, being in school gives you practice in memorizing things, a skill that fades with lack of use. Someone studying for an exam 15 years after they graduated from college, for example, probably will have a harder time memorizing lists of facts than someone with recent practice in cramming. Exposing yourself to new experiences can also help improve inactive or less active parts of the brain, Linden says. "Do as many different kinds of mental exercises as you can," he advises. If you're a crossword puzzle nut, that's great, but you'll build up only the skills related to crossword puzzles. Instead, put down the pencil and try something else. Seek out new cultural experiences, visit new places, and try a new hobby.

Wednesday, 14 November 2007

HIGH DEMAND 4 HIV MEDS AFTER HIGH-RISK SEX

People who do not have HIV but seek antiretroviral medications following high-risk sexual encounters are very likely to complete the full month-long drug regimen, according to a new UCLA AIDS Institute study. The researchers recommend that the city of Los Angeles make post-exposure HIV prophylaxis available to those who have engaged in high-risk sex. This is a common practice for health care workers who inadvertently stick themselves with needles. Steven Shoptaw, professor of family medicine and psychiatry at the David Geffen School of Medicine at the University of California, Los Angeles, and a member of the UCLA AIDS Institute, referring to the study in a press release, said this is a socio-economic issue because such a program would provide care for people who cannot normally afford it. "It is our belief that we have a responsibility to provide that level of protection to all our citizens," Shoptaw said in the statement. "These data show that when this kind of prevention is made available, the at-risk community will access and use it." Researchers based their conclusions on a study of 100 people who received HIV medication after unprotected, high-risk sex. Each participant was given 28 days' worth of lamivudine and zidovudine as well as HIV tests and physical examinations, and was scheduled for a follow-up visit 26 weeks later. Participants were highly educated in general; 63% were gay, and 95% were male. Of the participants, 75% completed the month-long drug treatment, and none was found to have contracted HIV. "We have 2,000-plus HIV infections in this county every year, and that rate has been stable for a number of years, which signifies that behavioral prevention has reached its peak," Shoptaw said. "Having post-exposure prophylaxis available may provide another arrow in the quiver to prevent new HIV infections." (The Advocate)

Tuesday, 13 November 2007

LIFE~OH~LIFE

TALK ABOUT THE VIOLENCE OF IT ALL…I sometimes wonder why WE are here, what is the PURPOSE of OUR existence? It seems that WE HUMANS are descending DEEPER and DEEPER into the dark abyss of social decay and WE keep digging deeper in order to get out of the hole. WE act as if OUR lives are nothing and it does not matter what happens to us. Hence in my view that LIFE is NOT picking US off like flies; rather it is US that are cracking OUR bodies like an egg, releasing the yolk inside. I sometimes wonder if it is our diet OR is it something in our gene that forces us to perpetuate the violence that is rampant in OUR communities. WE seem to revel in self- inflicted pain, then blame LIFE for the battle that we have created. I guess if WE continue to do more of same, WE will get a different result…I only wonder when WE will fight violence before it TOTALLY weighs on the social and emotional health of OUR community. I guess in OUR defense and doing something useful, WE get angry; vent OUR frustration in the vengeful call for an end to this behavior only to forget the events sooner than they took place. I find this Funny because it shows how WE want to achieve a lasting cure without dealing with the underlying causes to the problem. The pessimistic view of man seems to be the driving force behind the violence in OUR community. This only makes the problem worst before it can begin to get better. So if WE take the time to deal with PERSONAL violence that impact US mental, emotional, or physical WE can HEAL OUR community one person @ a time. However, the INTERPERSONAL violence like name-calling, mugging and abuse one to another; that stems from this concept would cease to exist because it only HURTS US and does NOT serve a purpose. Notwithstanding, the seed of violence; COMMUNITIES have NO choice but to breathe elements such as gang violence in a school and police brutality within the community. So the INSTITUTIONALIZE violence that is legally condoned by the society at large, uses capital punishment as the tool to ease the burden of confused society. So it is inevitable that violence on a NATIONAL level forces society to strip persons of their civil rights and human dignity. ALL of these concepts impact on OUR lives and bring about violence in OUR land. So If WE expect peace and tranquility in our land, WE cannot pretend that our world is an idyllic piece of paradise. It is OUR responsibility to do away with the PREVALENT INJUSTICE of violence within ourselves. Moreover, if WE truly desire peace in our land, WE must teach and live it everyday and have the courage to fight for it! WE need to understand that if WE are to STOP violence, there needs to be an understanding that the culture of LIFE finds its GREATEST hope in US. WE are supposed to stand for the equality of all, yet WE live in a world that TOLERATES and ACCEPTS the destruction of HUMAN life in the earliest and most vulnerable state. Hence, WE suffer due to the INDISCIPLINE and DISRESPECT for the sanctity of HUMANITY @ ALL stages of the continuum of life, and the environment in which WE live. WE simply can’t continue on the road we are now on. It is bound to lead to SOCIAL and ECONOMIC collapse and blaming violence on the concept that this is how LIFE is makes NO sense…

Monday, 12 November 2007

¿WHAT DO U THINK BOUT THIS STORY?

How do you feel & what do you think? Read the story and then decide... You've heard of Matthew Shepard. Why not Sean Ethan Owen?
The victim, age twenty-three, lived with his mother, stepfather, and sister in Franklinton. The victim's sister, Tiffany McFalls ("McFalls") testified the victim was an openly homosexual male. On 17 February 2004, the victim walked into the kitchen, where McFalls was washing dishes, and told her he was going to Durham to meet someone nicknamed "Blue" and that "he was going to go get some black meat tonight." McFalls testified she interpreted this statement to mean the victim was "going to Durhamto have sex with a black person."Surely you have heard of the notorious murder of Matthew Shepard, a gay man who was beaten, tied to a fence, and left to die. It was front-page news when it occurred in 1998, and has since been the subject of books, a stage play, and a movie. Numerous memorial web sites are dedicated to Shepard.

Projected Release Date: 06/27/2013 (Derrick Maiden, AKA: "Blue", Seduced Gay Victim)

So why haven't you heard of Sean Ethan Owen?Last week the North Carolina Court of Appeals upheld the conviction of one of two men convicted of first-degree murder in the February 17, 2004 killing of Sean Ethan Owen. Last July, the first-degree murder conviction of another of Owen's killers was upheld by the Court of Appeals. A third accomplice was allowed to plead guilty to a reduced charge of second-degree murder in exchange for his testimony against the two convicted of first-degree murder.The gruesome details of Owen's murder are provided in the Court of Appeals opinions. (Click on those links above. Don't be intimidated; no Latin terms are used in the description of the crime.) Like Matthew Shepard, Sean Ethan Owen was an openly homosexual young man murdered by multiple assailants.However, three factors distinguish the Shepard murder from the Owen murder. First, while it is commonly accepted that Shepard was murdered because he was gay, the only indication that his killers knew he was gay were their claims that Shepard made sexual advances toward them, eliciting a "homosexual panic" in the poor lads. The trial judge rejected their attorneys' attempt to employ a "homosexual panic" defense.

Projected Release Date: LIFE

A crucial fact in the Shepard murder is conveniently overlooked in most accounts: his killers also assaulted two men, presumed to be heterosexual, on the night they murdered Shepard. It is possible that Shepard was murdered simply because he was diminutive, an easy target for two thugs out for a night of mayhem.Sean Ethan Owen, conversely, was known by his killers to be gay. Owen met one of his killers on the Internet, in a gay chat room. The seductive murderer lured him to Durham, North Carolina for the purpose of having sex with him. When Owen arrived, he was met by the seductive murderer and two accomplices, who had Owen drive them to a park.There, Owen was shot in the back of the head when he got out of the car. Incredibly, he survived--"This boy is a soldier" one of his murderers marveled--and took off running, begging, "Please don't do this to me." He was caught, knocked to the ground, choked, stomped, and shot in the head again at point blank range. Still, he didn't die. So his seducer and two accomplices kicked him down a 20-foot embankment into the icy Eno River. The Medical Examiner determined that the cause of death--after all of that--was drowning.Second, while it is pointless to argue which murder was more heinous, there was a factor in the Owen murder that was not present in the Shepard murder: planning. In most jurisdictions, this element raises the severity of a murder above those that are spontaneous. Owen was seduced by the seductive murderer for weeks, sending and receiving salacious messages describing desired and promised sex acts. In fact, Owen was so aroused by the prospect of sex with the seductive murderer that, before leaving home on his fateful trip to Durham, he told his sister that, according to her testimony, "he was going to get some black meat tonight."Which leads us to the third distinction between the Shepard murder and the Owen murder: while both victims were white, and Shepard was murdered by two white men, Owen was murdered by three black men.

Projected Release Date: LIFE

Two months after the murder of Sean Ethan Owen, when his three killers were arrested and charged, Richard Prince of the Maynard Institute for Journalistic Education referred to the possibility that it was "A Matthew Shepard Case With a Different Cast," and, noting the interracial aspect of the crime, wrote "It will be interesting to note who pays attention to this story."Three years after the murder, we have the answer: nobody. If you Google "Matthew Shepard," you'll get thousands of hits. "Sean Ethan Owen"? Six hits--none from gay rights groups, one from a web sight that keeps an impolite accounting of black-on-white murders.Given the facts in both cases, there is no logical reason that the Matthew Shepard case should be a cause celebre while the murder of Sean Ethan Owen continues to be ignored by both national news organizations and gay rights groups.One can only speculate.The facts fit my theory of nostalgic reporting of interracial violence. In the good old days, whites preyed on blacks, and killed with impugnity, unafraid of the law. Selective reporting of interracial crimes takes us back to the good old days, and spares us the unsettling facts.As for the silence of gay rights groups, here are some possible explanations for their failure to publicize this case.First, the details do not flatter the victim, who could not be said to appreciate his seducer as a person when he anticipated that he was "going to get some black meat tonight." In addition to racist overtones, it describes the sort of impersonal, indiscriminate sexuality that some consider characteristic of all gay men.Second, gay rights groups have attempted to ride the coat tails of the black civil rights movement to further their agenda. For example, advocates for gay marriage seldom miss an opportunity to point out that until the 1967 decision of the U.S. Supreme Court in Virginia v. Loving (not "loving," but defendant John Loving, a white man whose wife, Mildred, was black), interracial marriages were illegal in southeastern states. For these purposes, the impression of gay-black solidarity is valuable.Not that gay rights groups have advocated for blacks when blacks might have benefitted from such an alliance. The international "Stop Murder Music" campaign was successful in getting record companies to acquiesce to demands that performers of so-called Jamaican dance hall music stop selling or performing music that advocated killing homosexuals (the "battyman"). After that agreement, the same performers were free, as hip-hop performers, to continue to advocate killing blacks.Third, gay rights groups naturally publicize cases of gay men and lesbian women being assaulted, but not assaulting, even when the victims are themselves gay men or lesbian women. From that perspective, the murder of Sean Ethan Owen is not an ideal case to publicize or memorialize. You see, the seductive murderer was adept at seducing Owen. He knew exactly what to write and say to get a gay man aroused at the promise of getting "some black meat." The evidence presented at trial made it appear that the seductive murderer just might be, could be... you know.Of course, whether the seductive murderer was gay or straight is irrelevant to Owen's murder. But it is relevant, it seems, to the failure of gay rights groups to publicize that murder.To those readers who have erroneously concluded that I'm attacking gays or implying they are all "closeted" murderers, re-read what I've written. I'm speaking on behalf of a gay man, Sean Ethan Owen, who experienced incomprehensible horror before he drowned in the freezing water of the Eno River, and whose suffering and murder has, inexplicably, been almost completely ignored outside of the Triangle area (Durham, Raleigh, and Chapel Hill) of North Carolina.*** One last thing before I go to sleep: straight men need to be just as concerned about anti-gay violence as gay men are already. Violence is more indiscriminate, less "principled, " than most people realize. If a few scumbags are looking for the opportunity to commit violence, and they've already agreed between themselves that attacks on gay men are justifiable, if you are vulnerable they are going to deem you "gay" to justify an attack on you. In other words, to violent criminals you're gay if THEY say you're gay. So have a heart. In May of 2005, Owen's mother posted the following online in response to a story on her son's murder: This is Sean Ethan Owen's mother. Yes, I believe my son was murdered because he was gay and he was the kindest person you could know. The people that murdered my son needs to look deep down and ask themselves why. But there is no reason why you could just kill a person that hasn't done any thing to you. Just cold blooded murder him. Why could anyone just take a life for no reason? You ask your self many times and you still get no answer. If they just wanted a car they didn't have to kill my son for it. He would have gave them the car so that is not why they killed him. You see you can get a car from any where but no, they wanted to kill a gay man that hasn't done a thing to them. One of the boys, Matthew Taylor got out on a bond. He was smiling like it was no big deal that he killed my son. I don't think it was fair to just let a man out, after knowing all the evidence and still let him out on bond. Why I ask myself but I have no answer. Can anyone tell me why? I want justice and I don't think I am going to get it. I see in my eyes if it was a white boy killing a black person you would not hear the end of it, but since it was a white man killed by three black men it looks like to me that they are saying another white man is gone. That is sad, a person is a person no matter what color they are and they need to only look at that - not the color of my son, that did not deserve to be killed. I think it would be worth our efforts to get the mothers of Black gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender hate-crime murder victims together to do a PSA regarding homophobia in the Black community and its effects on entire families and communities.

THIS IS SUCH A SAD STORY. IT PAINS ME TO HEAR THAT WE ARE DYING BECAUSE OF OUR SEXUALITY. IT ALSO HURT TO KNOW THAT THESE 3 BLACK MEN TRADED THEIR FREEDOM FOR A LIFE SENTENCE IN PRISON, SOMETHING THAT WILL AFFECT THEM FOREVER. WE NEED TO LEARN TO LIVE & LET LIVE & STOP LETTING IGNORANCE ABOUT A PERSON’S SEXUALITY COME TO THIS. HATRED ON THIS LEVEL DOES NO ONE GOOD & IT JUST MAKES THE PROBLEM WORST…

Sunday, 11 November 2007

¡MAKE ME A MAN!

I want man
That REALLY, REALLY, REALLY loves me,
A man that will grow with me emotionally…
And age with me spiritually.
I want man
That I can share the positive and negative aspects of life with,
A man that I can trust with my life…
And LOVE unconditionally.
I want a man
That I can raise kids with,
A man that values life…
And he enjoys being apart of the cycle of life.
I want a man
That I can hold in times of need,
A man that is a warrior…
And is an individual; not one of the pack.
I want a man
That is for my and his success,
A man that will lift me up…
And not tear me down.
I want a man
That agrees to disagree without making us wrong,
A man that I can share my triumphs with…
And be happy because I know he is not judgmental.
I want a man
That has an open mind,
A man that acknowledges the world around him…
And appreciates the GOD potential in others.
I want a man
That will be my FOREVER,
A man that goes beyond time…
And makes me MORE of a MAN than I am.
© tgk

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