OLDIE, BUT GOODIE: MAN VS. BOY

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I HAVE BEEN WONDERING HOW IS THAT SO MANY OF US END UP DATING THE BOY INSTEAD OF THE MAN. SO I THOUGHT THAT THIS WOULD BE SOME WHAT HELPFUL IN AIDING US IN THE DATING/RELATIONSHIP GAME. I CAN ONLY HOPE THAT MOST OF US GETS CLUED INTO THE FACT THAT WE MIGHT BE THE BOY OURSELVES...ABOVE ALL I HOPE THAT THIS HELP THOSE THAT ARE WONDERING HOW & WHY THEY CANNOT SEEM TO GET IT RIGHT OR DATE THE MAN RATHER THAN THE BOY...WHAT I HAVE HERE IS JUST THE TIP OF THE MAN VS. BOY SYNDROME (AFTER ALL I AM JUST HERE TO TAME THE FIRE THAT BURNS WITHIN)

A BOY wants to control the man in his life.

A MAN knows that if he's truly him, he doesn't need controlling.

A BOY will yell at you for not calling them.

MEN are too busy to realize you hadn't.

A BOY is afraid to be alone.

A MAN revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.

A BOY ignores the good guys.

A MAN ignores the bad guys.

A BOY makes you come home.

A MAN makes you want to come home.

A BOY leaves their schedule wide-open and waits for a guy to call and make plans.

A MAN makes his own plans and nicely tells the guy to get in where he fits.

A BOY worries about not being handsome and/or good enough for his man.

A MAN knows that he is handsome and/or good enough for any man.

A BOY tries to monopolize all of his man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).

A MAN realizes that little bit of space makes the TOGETHER TIME even more special-and goes out with his friends

A BOY thinks a man crying is weak.

A MAN offers his shoulder and a tissue.

A BOY wants to be spoiled to feed his ego.

A MAN will make him feel comfortable and engage his manhood.

A BOY gets hurt by one man and makes all men pay for it.

A MAN knows that was just one man.

A BOY falls in love and chase aimlessly after the object of his affection ignoring all the reject signs.

A MAN knows that sometimes the one's you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.