
In the course of my live, I've increasingly been met by
MEN with relationship problems. These
MEN had lives that were disrupted by various issues regarding the ones they love, have loved or regarding the search for love. Some, maybe most, of them chuck up their problems with
LOVE to many things that are
NOT necessarily the truth. I find we sell ourselves short
AND let
LOVE evade us. This behavior is
VERY wasteful energetically; but I get why it must be…Nonetheless, I feel that
NO matter what our situation may be,
NO one can deny that
LOVE is REAL. We can try with
ALL of might
NOT to associate ourselves with it; yet it still finds us. Nonetheless, it seems as if
WE GAY MEN attract
MEN that are
NOT good
OR worthy of us, yet we do not see anything wrong with that. This sparks the question of asking if
WE ARE LOOKING FOR THAT IMPERFECT SOMEONE TO SHARE YOUR LIFE WITH or ARE YOU JUST GOING ALONG WITH LIFE PRAYING FOR THAT PERFECT MAN? I find that finding that elusive ideal mate doesn't come that easily for most of us because we haven't learned the importance of being very clear in our thoughts what type of person would truly make us happy. Hence living the notion that
LOVE is NOT REAL! We as a community project such a
MURKY IMAGE of our desires that it is
NEARLY impossible for the universe to deliver our
IMPERFECT package. Though I cannot fully blame
GAY MEN for the way they view
LOVE, I have to say that as
ADULTS they owe it to themselves that they live base on
LOVE. This unclear notion that is in our minds about
LOVE just leaves us in a fog that will
NOT clear until we get ourselves where we ought to be. Now I am
NOT disregarding the fact that some if
NOT all of us need to be in this place because if we view
LOVE in such a manner then we need
NOT to have it. SO
BEFORE YOU FIND OUT HOW REAL LOVE IS, EVALUATE YOURSELF. Find where you are in life @ the moment. Ask how did you get there? Are you happy
OR sad?
EVALUATE PAST RELATIONSHIPS. Ask what aspects in those individuals made you happiest? What aspects were not so great? Are you ready for a new relationship and all that it involves?
MAKE SURE YOU ARE CLEAR ABOUT YOUR NEEDS. Explore your personal reasons for wanting to manifest a mate. Are you lonely? Are you in need of emotional support?
RELEASE YOUR REQUEST TO THE UNIVERSE. Trust that everything will work out perfectly.
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