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Friday, 23 April 2010

OLDIE, BUT GOODIE: CONQUERING THE 'GAY' WORLD...1 BED POST @ A TIME


Our perception of the traits and characteristics that make us who we are is often tightly intertwined with how we live our life. We define ourselves in terms of the roles we adopt, our actions and inactions, our triumphs, and what we think are failures. As a result it is easy to identify so strongly with a decision that has resulted in unexpected negative consequences that we actually become that "WRONG" decision.

I have a serious problem with my ‘FRIENDS’ just F**KING the F**K out of each other. I know that it has nothing to do with me but, still it bothers me. I believe that it has to do with the inability of my ‘FRIENDS’ to love themselves. Does this misguided notion keep us from building a better community? HELL YES! If this notion continues, they will continue to get what they have; which is nothing…In other words, attracting the characteristic manifested within.


So I propose they need to learn to love ourselves, examine their thought process. Become aware of that SPIRITUAL BEING OF SELF-LOVE. I feel that they are so lazy, so unmotivated to find a MAN out there; it’s like they are afraid of facing themselves or that makes it real…GUESS WHAT, U R A HOMOSEXUAL and your home turf won’t save you. Don’t be afraid of venturing beyond your circle, life is bigger than this rock we live on! It is our diversity that makes us the most powerful and feared people on this planet. Don’t they realize that they have what the world wants?


I know that most of us, myself include yearn for sexual healing. I honestly feel that they are not body & soul conscious and have depleted energy levels and a diminished sense of aliveness in the heart region. Because of the fragmented energy disbursement in the body, sexual motivation usually has more to do with feelings like neediness, escape, and proving one’s self-worth, than with pure pleasure and the normal desire for interconnectedness. I feel that they are frozen in darkness seeking the nearest light, only creating more darkness; becoming frustrated at a perceived inability to negotiate these complexities. They are just repeating an unfulfilled pattern again and again.


It is important to believe that when two human beings share each other’s energy, they simply ask themselves: What motives do I bring to my sexuality? What do I want from the sexual aspect of my nature? How does this experience transcends me to a more profound healing and enriching existence? Contrary to what some believe about sexuality, we need to learn that healthy loving expression includes the expression of our more shadowy desires as well as tenderness. True and spiritual lovemaking is a holistic experience, interweaving our higher and our shadow selves…if ONLY we could do it with an intimate AND open hearts!



7 comments:

  1. The post is fine...but the letters are so small and they are green and get lost in the background...just an observation.
    Your blog is very good, just that part that makes it very hard to read.
    saludos,
    raulito

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  2. RAULITO - I HOPE THE CHANGES I MADE ARE BETTER...

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  3. Hello from Germany! I wish, your family and your friend a peascefull weekend! Liebe Grüße Björn

    have a look please:

    http://bjoerns-brutzelbude.blogspot.com/2010/04/todesstrafe-fur-schwule.html

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  4. I think this topic needed revisiting, as it's something that many within the community might benefit from pondering. My thought: there are so many gay men who have no idea of how to socialize with each other, as friends, and how to just be men together, without any sexual component being added to the mix.

    One can only hope that, with age and maturity, they will evolve and recognize the wealth of possibilities they and others have to offer, emotionally and spiritually to one another.


    One Love.

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  5. another great post...gayte-keeper:)
    i totally agree :"I feel that they are so lazy, so unmotivated to find a MAN out there; it’s like they are afraid of facing themselves or that makes it real…GUESS WHAT, U R A HOMOSEXUAL and your home turf won’t save you. Don’t be afraid of venturing beyond your circle, life is bigger than this rock we live on! It is our diversity that makes us the most powerful and feared people on this planet."..and i agree with Moanerplicity "there are so many gay men who have no idea of how to socialize with each other, as friends, and how to just be men together, without any sexual component being added to the mix."

    i think most gays base their lifes around their sexuality...they are nothing without sex and struggle with the real world...but sex is sex move on..dont degrade urself in such a way you forgot who are!!! not ur sex..who you are.
    they need to grow the fuck up.

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  6. You are cool, man. I am a white male who worships black men and their cocks. God (PHALLUS) bless you.

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  7. BJORNS – SO NICE TO SEE YOU HERE!!!

    MOANERPLICITY – SO SAD THAT WE DON’T KNOW TO BE MEN WITH EACH INDEED…

    ZION`OLOGY – YOU ARE SOMETHING ELSE…LOVE THE WAY THAT BRAIN OF YOURS WORK! WE MUST MEET ONE DAY…

    MASTERYOTE – THANK YOU…

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