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Wednesday, 18 March 2009

¿TOO MUCH SEX?


Not many partners are equals in libido. Typically, one wants sex more than the other. But that’s NOT the case for Noel and I. There hasn’t been a time when we reached for each other and the other was turned down. In fact I’d say that we can’t seem to get enough of each other…Which brings me to my question, is there such a thing as TOO MUCH SEX? I’ve read tons of articles on the subject and I feel that would be the most horrible thing to deal with…THE DEATH OF OUR ROMANCE & THE WANING OF OUR SEXUAL DESIRE FOR EACH OTHER…I mean we are both the type of men that could let one off @ least once a day. For me the thought of having sex occurs countless times a day. And like clock work right before I sleep, I lay beside Noel look @ him and wonder to myself will we OR will we? I mean we are both willing so why don’t we? Have we allowed ourselves to get caught up in the notion that TOO MUCH of a good isn’t a good thing? I am NO where near being tired of sex and I am not concerned about trying to kill it, it is just that I wonder about it from time to time. With noel I’ve learned how to let all aspects of my sexual self shine and I ENJOY expressing myself. For the first time I don’t want to close the door based on some crazy notion AND the fear of the unknown. So many couples feel a lot of pressure to remain sexually fresh, new AND exciting. Who needs that? I want us to EMBRACE the on-going discovery of each other and if we get to do that EVERYDAY I don’t think that’s a bad thing @ all…Most if not all of us for reason can’t embrace SEX in the way we should because we abuse N’ misuse it WAY TOO often. From the club to the halls of the churches we are either seeking that thrill OR feeling ashamed because of it…NEVER is there that middle ground where both persons want to spend their lives with each other AND try their hardest to wear each other out on a daily…

42 comments:

  1. DAMN BRO, 'EXCESSIVE SEXUAL APPETITE'/'TOO MUCH SEX'? WITH SOMEONE WHO ENJOYS YOU JUST AS MUCH AS YOU ENJOY HIM? HELL! WHY FIX SOMETHIN' THAT AIN'T BROKEN? YOU'VE FOUND YOUR NIRVANA, ENJOY IT!!!!!

    HOW MANY PEOPLE WOULD LIKE TO BE YOU AND NOEL???? I THINK IT'S DEFINITION OF HELL TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHEN ROMANCE AND SEXUAL DESIRE HAS WANED WITHIN A RELATIONSHIP.

    I DON'T HAVE A MAN AND HAVEN'T HAD ONE IN FIVE YEARS AND WHEN I THINK ABOUT RELATONSHIPS SOMETIMES, I WONDER WHETHER I WILL BE SADDLED WITH THE VERY SAME PROBLEM. THAT'S SOME SCARY SHIT RIGHT THERE. OH LORDY, HEAVEN HELP US THAT WE ALSO FIND OURSELVES OUR VERY OWN PARADISE.

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  2. MISS SHALLOTTE - IT SOUNDED CRAZY WHEN I THE THOUGHT, BUT WANTED TO GET THE OPINION OF OTHERS...

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  3. AIN'T CRAZY @ ALL, NOT FROM WHERE I'M SITTING. AS FAR AS MY VISION CAN TELL, EVERYTHIN'S SITTING PRETTY AND TIGHT. LET'S JUST ENJOY OURSELVES, MMMMM???....

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  4. MISS SHALLOTTE - I WILL INDEED...

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  5. I think its cool you guys are that sexually active for one another. =)
    Good for you!

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  6. My boyfriend and me are now 12 years together/a strong relationsship. The sex have changed, sometimes we have 3 weeks no sex, but we have everday love...okay, sometimes he makes me crazy also.....
    p.s. i like the picture

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  7. BJORNS - YEAH THAT LOVE IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART...

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  8. Love is the most important part, thats romantic. I think sex is also very important, boath 50%/50%. I don`t know...?! The "life" is so full of sex, in movies, in commercial (for parfum for example). I think that the internet have make for a lot of people big problems. In the net you can see everthing, from soft to very hard, but it is not real, thats porn. I think some people loose the reality, think something like.."oh what these guys do..i want also do with my partner". But I am not a porn actor, I am Björn. I love sex, but without somekind of pressure! I hope everbody understand what i want to say?!:-) Liebe Grüße Björn

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  9. Nah, it's not too much. Both of you enjoy it, so go at it! :)

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  10. DUSTY BOOT - WHAT IF WE GET PREGNANT? (^_^)

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  11. If your body can handle the physical demands of sex on a daily basis, go for it. Personally, I think CERTAIN body parts require a little rest. Don't you agree?

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  12. LOL Gayte, if you having that much sex with Noel, can I come watch...particularly if yall are getting down like this picture! lol =)

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  13. Unfortunately I wouldn't know about TOO MUCH sex - since I get NO sex!!! :)

    Based on what you shared in this post, you and Noel are lucky to have found each other. You sound like a really compatible couple.

    XOXOXO

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  14. LOSOJOSNUEVOS - I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU

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  15. PHARAOH - SORRY DUDE LOVE THIS SPECIAL ARE JUST FOR EYES ONLY...L(O)L!

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  16. DAVID DUST - YEAH WE ARE LUCKY...VERY LUCKY

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  17. You are a dream bf
    my baby is still not ready after a year
    Im not even complaining

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  18. CASOU - THANK YOU...SO WHAT'S YOUR NEXT MOVE?

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  19. being with someone who has the same sex drive as u is great...a rare occurance at times though lol..having been relationship with someone whose sex drive was sooooooo much lower than mine, i know it can put a strain on the relationsip..but sounds like u don't have that problem...keep enjoyin each other and makin it do wut it do lol

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  20. JERZEY_REALITY - I THINK WE'RE PREGNANT...

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  21. you all are in the exploratory phase and i'm sure it's all good. enjoy it. love is beautiful.....and sexy.....

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  22. I wouldn't even be questioning it. I would just be enjoying it. I hope that the dude i'm dating has the same sex drive that I have.

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  23. THE CPA DOC - LOVE IS BEAUTIFUL...

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  24. THAT DUDE RIGHT THERE - YES SIR!

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  25. I say Dont Stop! Just Keep Getting It!

    Theirs Nothing wrong with enyoing your Man.

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  26. Why should we question something that is natural (well others would beg to differ)? Sex is just another expression of love; if you love him then why not every day?

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  27. ERRYTING COOL - YOU SUCH A SMART YOUNG MAN...

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  28. Believe it or not, I've had people break up with me in the past because I was "too sexual". I used to think what the heck is that??

    Growing up the way I did, I new about sex, but was a virgin until I was like 21 or 22! Being the ever so late bloomer, in my adult relationships, I enjoy being with my partner and as Erryting Cool says it's an expression of love. I love and am so much in love with my man and we're both young and healthy, so if we jump each other's bone every day so be it. As we get older the drive may not be there (Gosh, I hope it is thought!!!), so why not take full advantage.

    Great post.

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  29. ACHILLES - I WILL DO IT YOU & EVERYONE OUT THERE...

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  30. it's good y'all feel each other like that

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  31. It is rare when both partners are feeling exactly the same, consider it a blessing because it generally doesn't happen that way. The both of you are truly attracted to each other. Do the damn thang!

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  32. CHET - SINCE YOU PUT IT LIKE THAT, HOW CAN I REFUSE?

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  33. Can i just say that I hate u and Noel....lol (just playing) im glad that u guys get to share what u do. I dont think there is anything as too much sex if ur on the same page. and the 2 of u obviously are. shit one day when i grow up! i wanna be just like u. lol

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  34. TRU3LOGIC - YOU SAY THE NICEST THINGS...

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  35. Sex is never too much sex when It comes to me and my babe lol.

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  36. Too much sex??? Really? Is that possible?

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  37. ACOUSTIC SOUL - NOT WHEN YOU ARE WITH THE "ONE"

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  38. It must be perfectly normal if the feeling is there then there shouldn't be a problem

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