The phrase
SEXUAL RESPONSIBILITY means a variety of things to different people. For some, it means abstinence; for others it means having a monogamous partner and consistent condom usage. But, there are a lot of persons out there that ignore both and continue to have
UNPROTECTED SEX with clueless persons that are either to
EMBARRASSED or HORNY to ask about their status.
WE NEED TO BREAK THIS AWFUL KARMA AND BEGIN TO EXERCISE MORE CARE AND ATTENTION TO OUR SEXUAL ACTIVITY; LIFE IS FLEETING FOR US GAY PEOPLE AND WE ARE GOING TO LOOSE OURSELVES TO THIS DISEASE. There are
GAY MEN dying around us far too frequently and this is proof that from the moment
HIV~AIDS hit us we have taken this disease on for humanity and into our consciousness through guilt. This is exactly what the
HATERS and
RELIGIOUS ZEALOTS have cast on
US as
PUNISHMENT for OUR GAYNESS to deflect the real enemy and breeding destruction in
OUR COMMUNITY. The fact remains that
HIV is still a leading cause of death for in
OUR COMMUNITY and the sooner we acknowledge that the better.
GAY MEN are engaging in unsafe anal sex at an alarming rate.
BLKGAYCHAT, ADAM4ADAM and ADAM4SEX are flooded with men requesting the next HOOK UP and not the disclosure of
HIV STATUS that is more important than the fleeting sexual moment that will be over with in a few minutes.
HOW CAN WE CONTINUE LIVING THIS LIFE AND CARRY THIS ATTITUDE THAT I DON’T NEED TO KNOW AND HE WON’T TELL ME? These
GAY MEN participate in
ORGIES and other
UNSAFE activity; anyone should know or realize that when the
SEXUAL ENERGY is that high, the inhibitions and common sense have long left.
BUT WHY TAKE THE RISK? There is no cure for
HIV or AIDS and the meds only prolong the development of the virus into full blown
AIDS. Hence we get to see how
UNEDUCATED the
COMMUNITY is when it comes to this crisis. When are going to understand that with
SEX comes the responsibility to protect yourself and others? When are
WE going to discuss another’s
SEXUAL HISTORY and
HIV status before sex? When are
WE going to understand that
SAFE SEX SHOULD still be practiced even after a discussion? I wish that we could stop adopting this fearless mentality and not
F&CK in the moment.
WE need not accept the risk of simply not asking someone what their status is. I know that
SEX without a CONDOM will increase pleasure or seem more spontaneous, but the risks far outweigh any moment of ecstasy. A moment of pleasure can lead to a lifetime of illness and given the rate of that situation why take that chance?
WE need to find
OUR LOVE for SELF and not follow the direction of some
MAN that is more confident sex when it comes to sex because he looks ok doesn’t mean that he is. Don’t fall for the lines and bullshit, let him know
IF HIS D!CK CAN’T GET UP THEN HE CAN’T PENETRATE YOU! Don’t let him
JUST PUT THE HEAD IN this is just for pleasure and not protection. Don't let a
SEX BULLY dictate your future health. We in this
COMMUNITY need to start
SERO-SORTING; this is the practice of choosing sexual partners based on their
HIV status. In other words,
SORT POTENTIAL PARTNERS according to whether they are
HIV positive or
HIV negative. Even though this cannot eliminate the spread of
HIV~AIDS this can curb the advancement of the amount of persons being infected.
WE NEED TO START OUTTING PERSONS THAT ARE SICK IN ORDER TO GET A HANDLE ON THIS DISEASE, WE NEED TO MAKE SURE THAT WE ARE SAFE GUARDING AND PROTECTING ALL IN THIS COMMUNITY; HIV NEGATIVE AND POSITIVE PERSONS ALIKE.
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