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Monday, 04 June 2012


There’s nothing worse than a man with no rhythm in the bedroom. And usually, I’m more than willing to instruct my lovers how to stroke me properly. But there are occasions that I really just want them to get it right the first time, and not hump me like they’re descendents of a dog species.

I’ve had gorgeous lovers, many in perfect shape, extremely athletic, and flexible. But for some strange reason, they get in the bed and their hips only know one motion: back and forth super rapidly without stopping. In most cases, men’s ass muscles do not respond forcefully to one motion during sex.

So I feel the need to have a conversation with our gay men. Because good homosexual sex takes joint focus on two persons’ needs. You can’t just hump men like jack rabbits (well you can), and then ask why our faces looked dead when you use our asses like lab receptacles. We’re not your semen dumping grounds. You should just rub a nut and watch a porno flick if you’re going to be self-centered.

Stroking is an art. It’s power lies in spontaneity, different levels of speed, various depths, and most importantly, rhythm. A good stroke is spontaneous because it will keep the man guessing, speed up to activate the many points that bring him that pleasurable pain, slow down to provide a crescendo into exploring his depths, and yet still feel like a beautiful rhythm that you’ve composed through your head.
It’s not enough to simply give us monotone humps, and expect a porn star reaction. If you want a man to moan, shake, and naturally tighten his ass muscles, it’s a requirement to constantly work on your stroke.

Once you’ve got the stroke down, you can add small touches like gently massaging his prostate or sucking his toes, all while you keep your rhythm. But without the good stroke, none of these extras will compensate. Master the basic ingredients, and then add the icing. Good sex requires dedication to self-improvement. And there’s no reason for anyone to settle for mediocre, one-sided sex when two-partnered bliss awaits.

What constructive criticism can we provide our men for better stroking and better sex? 


  1. Well said - especially the last paragraph!

  2. So true! :) Interactive is better than trying to wake up a lover who fell asleep through boredom! Thanks for posting this, my friend!




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