¡We can no longer be a bunch of empty minds living in critical times refusing to recognize real lies!

Tuesday, 26 January 2010

¡LIFE IS NOT A FAIRYTALE!




What you send out - comes back.
What you sow - you reap.
What you give - you get.
What you see in others - exists in you.
Life is an Echo.
It always gets back to you.


SO REMEMBER…

If you limit the love you give to just one or two,
It will eventually go stale.
If you learn to create love inside your heart
And silently give it to everyone you meet,
Love will grace every corner of your life.

ALSO REMEMBER TO…

v     Quit arguing with people about the same old foolishness!
Ø      Respect their position and keep it moving!
v     Quit telling people your secrets when you know they are not going to keep them!
Ø      And if you keep telling them, then quit getting mad when they tell your secrets!
v     Quit trying to pull people on your journey who don't want to travel with you!
Ø      Either they believe in you and value you or they don't!
v     Quit complaining about things you can't and won't change!
Ø      I am not working on being a model...so instead of complaining about the weight charts, negotiated with your doctor for a "comfortable weight for me." Forget the charts! Create your own "healthy weight!"
v     Quit gossiping about other people!
Ø      Minding our own business should be a full time job!
v     Quit blaming each other for things that in the big picture aren't going to matter 3 weeks from now!
Ø      Talk solutions... and then implement them!
v     Quit eating things you know are not good for you!
Ø      If you can't quit...eat smaller portions! (I know it is VERY hard)
v     Quit buying things when we know we can't afford them!
Ø      If you don't have self control, then quit going to the stores!
v     Quit charging things, especially when you don't NEED them!
v     Quit staying in unhealthy relationships!
Ø      It is not okay for people to verbally or physically abuse you! So quit lying to yourself!
Ø      -It is not okay to stay in the marriage for the children or for the sake of saying you are married, it doesn't work! Ask them and they will tell you that they really would prefer to see you happy and that the misery you and your spouse/partner are living with is affecting them!
v     Quit letting people rope you into the drama!
Ø      Start telling them you don't want to hear it!
v     -Quit spreading the drama!
v     Quit calling other relatives and telling them about your cousin or aunt! Go back to #5 - minding your own business should be enough to keep you busy!
v     Quit trying to change people! IT DOESN’T WORK!
v     Quit cussing people out when you know that they are just being the miserable and jealous people that they are!
v     Quit the job you hate!
v     -Start pursuing your passion
Ø      HINT: find the job that fuels your passion before you quit!
v     Quit volunteering for things that you aren't getting any personal fulfillment from anymore!
v     Quit volunteering for things and then failing to follow through with your commitment!
v     Quit listening to the naysayers!
v     Quit watching the depressing news if you are going to live in the doom and gloom of it all!
v     Quit making excuses about why you are where you are or why you can't do what you want to do!
v     Quit waiting on others to give you the answers...and start finding the answers in YOU!
Ø      If what you are doing isn't working for you...then quit it!
v     Quit settling and start making your dreams a reality!
v     Quit being afraid and START LIVING YOUR LIFE!

11 comments:

  1. If what you are doing isn't working for you...then quit it!


    This says it all.

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  2. Man this is so true, I only wish that some of the people I know would take heed to these suggestions.

    Takes me back to the time my daddy told me years ago "Do the right thing even when nobody is looking."

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  3. Imagine having to find this post after yesterday's drama in my life. I didn't come to work yesterday, I had a bad headache that started on Monday (my first day @ work)& continued through the whole Tuesday.

    I started Tuesday morning with tears & was still crying when my boss called me just before 9am. I think I might be having stress from my family & other people issues (and maybe my job too?). I'm a very sensitive person but have always maintained a strong front, never breathing a word about how I feel to anyone but now I'm starting to break.

    I thought I was finally going to live it up this year, but instead it looks like it's the year for a little detox programme - I think 2010 wants to be the year that brings in the end of a cycle. I'll see.

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  4. 'If you limit the love you give to just one or two it will eventually go stale'.
    Funny that one of the resolutions I have made is to do exactly that! I decided to do that because I told myself that I don't want drama. That line makes me think.

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  5. You always give the very best advice... really!
    Thanks for the great blog.

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  6. U! You've just reminded me. And I'm getting all moist & nostalgic thinking about it cause you're going on about love & loving more than one person & things like that...

    So, last December I finally meet my cutie on MySpace. That man was fire! See I had been asking Mother Universe to hook me up('sup Mother U! word yo) . And bless her soul, SHE did. But guess what Miss S did? She went & cancelled her MySpace account! No notice, no goodbye, NOTHING!

    Can you believe that? I need to have this head shrienked. For real, dawg... :) And I need to start spreading all that love cooked up inside of me. Holla dawg..

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  7. THE WALKING MAN - IT CERTAINLY DOES...

    CHET - YOUR DAD HAD THE RIGHT IEAD...

    MISS SHALLOTTE - I JUST WANT TO GIVE YOU A BIG HUG!

    STEPHEN - I TRY...

    EDUARDO - YOU KNOW IT!

    JAMARI F0X - I AM GLAD YOU DO...

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  8. "If you learn to create love inside your heart
    And silently give it to everyone you meet,
    Love will grace every corner of your life."

    That's the glory and wonder of love. I so wish more people could see that.

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