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Today I am
asking that you think about which persona represents the GAY community @ its best. I know that no two people are a like and
I don’t cover everyone, but I realize that we have a problem and I feel that it
starts with how we see ourselves AND other gay men within the community. So the
following are labels that are just off the top of my head that are commonly
used within the gay community. These are NOT
official labels; they just represent what is familiar and what I hear from
other gay men within the gay community… SO
WHICH GAY DO YOU THINK IS BETTER?
THE SUGAR DADDY
THE BREEDER
THE MACHO GAY
THE AVERAGE GAY
THE DRAG QUEEN
THE PRETTY BOY
THE STRAIGHT GAY
I would say the average gay. Since, I think that's me lol ;)
ReplyDeleteLMAO @ "the breeder"......I don't think that any of them are "better" perse, I believe that people prefer certain "characteristics" based on the value they place on those aspects (of course connected to the socialization of our culture as black people or people of color). Personally, I would go for the average guy.....
ReplyDeleteGotta love the pretty boyz...but I'm an average gay too.
ReplyDeleteSo my vote is clear.
I agree with the last 2 comments. I would go with average gay myself as well.
ReplyDeleteIn atlanta it's the pretty boy gay. I mean pretty boys left and right... right and left around there. It makes average gays like me feel very intimidated... as though perhaps what I have is not enough. :( Just when you think your keeping up, you find out you are only a few more steps behind. (sigh...)
ReplyDeleteI hate to ask this...but what's a breeder? I always see it around but I never caught on.
ReplyDeleteMy vote is for Sugar Daddies and Average Gay...Although you failed to cover the A-gays: men that are masters in their given field that just so happen to enjoy the company of other men...
I guess it's a toss up of the macho gay and the average gay.
ReplyDeleteI have such great catholicity of taste in men that goes from one end of the spectrum to the other, including but not necessarily in that order: hairy/smooth, power bottom/top, Latino/Blacks/Asians, Blonds/red haired, young/mature, cut/uncut and thin/beefy/muscular. But if you asked my preference I would say it is definitely hirsute with lush pits, heavy five day old beard growth, somewhat muscular and in his mid forties.
ReplyDeletethought you might like to know.
saludos,
raulito