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Monday, 11 August 2008


In the dating world, many of us complain about guys not wanting to be in SERIOUS relationship. This complaint is further exacerbated when SEX becomes involve. So I wondered about this situation and tried to figure out if one should try skim milk RATHER than buying whole milk before giving up the cookies entirely. I for one don’t believe in dictating what others should do when it comes to their sex lives; however I no problem in offering my advice. Before any form sex comes into the picture, both parties involved should acknowledge that it takes both time and work to get to know someone; and sometimes the cookies and milk cliché may not be a good thing at first. I feel that we allow ourselves to become VICTIMS to the sexual tryst most of time so we make the wrong choice. The choice of having sex with someone before you really them can possible cause more harm than good. But if one feel that he cannot hold back I would suggest that he merely skim some off the top so he can wet his pallet. Patience is one of the hardest things to learn in life, especially while building a relationship that is of the same gender. SAME~SEX~RELATIONSHIP tend to mature @ an accelerated rate, often much faster than relationships between hetero couples. So we need to filter our behavior in the beginning if the end game is a relationship. If a man likes how something taste he will come back for; but if he is given more than a mouthful it lessens the thrill before he gets to know the real you. Can you tell me why would a man be proud of a bowling trophy if he feels that everyone in the alley could get it? This scavenger instinct that we have when it comes to sex shows how desperate AND empty we are. When it comes to love, I would like to think that we have evolved past our animal instincts. But we behave like animals that capture their prey which is obviously about feeding the nature AND glowing in the thrill of the chase. THOUGH THERE IS NO DATING UTOPIA, I BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A MAN OUT THERE FOR EACH & EVERY ONE OF US. WE JUST HAVE TO REALLY GET OUT THERE & PUT SOME EFFORT INTO ATTRACTING THE RIGHT MAN FOR US. I FIND IT VERY SAD THAT WE COME OUT HARD & STRONG WHEN IT COMES TO SATISFYING OUR URGES, YET WE DON’T SHOW UP WHEN SOMETHING MORE THAN SEX IS PRESENTED. IT SEEMS AS IF MOST OF US DON’T LIKE THE RULES OF THE GAME; BUT IT’LL BE PLAYED WITH OR WITHOUT US…SO SHOULDN’T WE WANT TO ENSURE THAT WE SCORE RATHER THAN NOT BEING ABLE TO OFF THE BENCH TO PLAY?

1 comment:

  1. I really enjoyed the piece about skim or whole milk. it is rare and refreshing to know i'm not alone in how i feel towards building/forming relationships. many of our brothers give our community a bad name and feed into the misplaced sterotypes that all "they" want to do is have sex-period. they are nasty and worthless. keep up the excellent job sir. Ken




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