Love…Most
of us remember, or are at this very moment, feeling the raptures of love, but what about the other side? Many of
us who've experienced the joys of love have also experienced the unfortunate
fact that love doesn’t always last. Even if you were raised on a rich diet of
fairy tales, you know that "'til
death do us part” and "forever"
can actually be pretty rare things. Even staying with someone forever is no
guarantee of experiencing lasting love. The ending of love leaves us sad, depressed,
angry, and confused; swearing that we'll never fall in love again. And
wondering many things, such as why do
people really fall out of love?Is
there anything we can do to make love stay? Do some of us give up too easily? What
do you think makes a person fall out of love?
Love above all things is pure and unconditional. It doesn't hurt. When we walk out of someone's life or they walk out of ours, we feel the lost, which generate various emotions that you mentioned. You don't and can't fall out of love; you simply just choose to not want to love the person anymore due to reasons you think you can't overcome. It's all a matter of choice. God's love toward us is a matter of choice. We are all not where we would like to be in him and for him at times, but he never revokes his love. It is that love, so sweet, constant and unwavering, that brings us back to him.
I think two people can fall out of love as they change. People can grow apart, take each other for granted, want different things out of life. No one moves through life unchanged. It is how a couple handles the changes, how they grow, how committed they are. But even the best and most committed couples can have obstacles they can't cross together. When love just can't endure.
Love is not what attracts us to each other, that attraction has to do with "animal magnetism", which comes and goes, as does our desire.
Love is the very fabric of the universe; it is not easily summoned, understood or endured by us as humans. But we can dream, can't we? After all we "are such things as dreams are made of."
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Love above all things is pure and unconditional. It doesn't hurt. When we walk out of someone's life or they walk out of ours, we feel the lost, which generate various emotions that you mentioned. You don't and can't fall out of love; you simply just choose to not want to love the person anymore due to reasons you think you can't overcome. It's all a matter of choice. God's love toward us is a matter of choice. We are all not where we would like to be in him and for him at times, but he never revokes his love. It is that love, so sweet, constant and unwavering, that brings us back to him.
ReplyDelete...in addition...and assures and reassures us that we are his..and that we WANTS US, NO MATTER WHAT!
DeleteLike your observation.
DeleteI think two people can fall out of love as they change. People can grow apart, take each other for granted, want different things out of life. No one moves through life unchanged. It is how a couple handles the changes, how they grow, how committed they are. But even the best and most committed couples can have obstacles they can't cross together. When love just can't endure.
ReplyDeleteLove is not what attracts us to each other, that attraction has to do with "animal magnetism", which comes and goes, as does our desire.
ReplyDeleteLove is the very fabric of the universe; it is not easily summoned, understood or endured by us as humans. But we can dream, can't we? After all we "are such things as dreams are made of."
You told the secret about love.
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