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Thursday, 09 February 2012

RETHINKING THE DATING GAME


How many of you have officially thrown in the towel, give up and said, ‘I don't know what men want and I no longer care. So I've stepped out of the “dating pool”, dried myself off and left the damn resort?’

What is the game plan going forward?



9 comments:

  1. I think I am the resident expert on this subject: The game plan should be to keep playing. I know I've told this story a couple of times but here goes..

    At the very moment I was ready to push the button and remove my profile from a number of sites including Manhunt, 'forever', I got a message from someone who turned out to be the MOMD. We chatted on line and then on the phone for hours, met the following afternoon, spent 4 days pounding away in bed and have been together ever since.

    That life-changing event happened almost four years ago and at least once a week I tell him "thank you for finding me". His response is always, "NO, thank YOU for letting me find you."

    If you aren't IN the game, how can you expect to WIN it?

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    1. NEVER tire of hearing this story. LOVE the last part! Noel and I MUST meet you and yours when we come to NYC!

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    2. Jeff, that is an awesome story. I have not heard it before, so thank you for sharing.

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  2. I always kinda enjoyed casual dating. That moment when you try to figure out if it is worth another date, or just "accidentally" mess up your phone number when you give it to him. The fun of going out and not really caring where it is going, or about the future. I like being in a relationship, but casual dating was never a terrible thing for me. Sure I had many "men are assholes" moments, and have probably given those moments to another guy too.

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  3. LOL, just as an aside the captcha for publishing the last statement was "hopon". "Hop on" could have described my entire casual dating life.

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  4. At 60 going on 61 y/o soon I'm resigned to the fact that I probably will be alone from now on and I'm fine with it. There aren't too many gay guys around at my age anymore and if there are they're probably as stuck in their ways as I am. My partner passed away during the great plague of the 80's & 90's and I just never met anyone else like him. Yeah I've fucked around since then but in the past few years struggling with health issues myself I just don't have the energy for dating or sleeping around anymore. Since I'm out of the "game" there's no plan. LOL!

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    1. I TOTALLY understand how you feel, however I think life might have a nice surprise for you yet!

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    2. I SECOND THAT.. it aint over till its over.

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