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Monday, 20 February 2012

MONOGAMY REDEFINED...


Samuel Colt & Chris Porter, two adult film stars, find l’amour.

COLT (Left) We met in 2010 on Twitter. His picture was cute, so I started chatting with him. I was doing an appearance at View Bar. That’s what I do a lot—travel to bars and strip down to underwear and dance. I said, “Why don’t you come and say, Hi? ” I never do that.

PORTER I got there right at the beginning. I said, “Hey,” and he was like, “Do I know you?” I was, like, “Bitch, you told me to come here.” And then he remembered. We went into the basement and proceeded to make out. He had a scene the next day, so we couldn’t have sex. The next time we saw each other was at a convention the following month, and that’s when I knew I liked him. When I had to leave, I was bummed I was going back to New York and he was going to San Francisco. I didn’t know when I would see him again. I tweeted that I wanted to move. And he responded that his roommate had moved out. The next month, I moved in with him. But there was this guy there he was dating that
he met the day before I met him. I was like, Damn.

COLT I didn’t know that he had those intentions! I couldn’t have sex with a roommate. That’s a good policy! But every time we’d go out of town and do appearances together, we would have sex the entire time.

PORTER We’d go home and act like it didn’t happen. A couple of months later, he broke up with the guy, and I was secretly, like, Yes! At Folsom, we hooked up with this couple together.

COLT It was romantic, it really was. We had anonymous strangers abusing us, but we were having an intimate moment. Then, we went to HustlaBall in Berlin, and that’s when we really started to like each other. The heterosexual view of being faithful is so outdated. We don’t have to have sex only with each other to be faithful. I’m completely faithful to him, emotionally and with my heart. I can still get gang-banged and want to go back home to him.

PORTER We didn’t want monogamy. We knew that wouldn’t work. We’re both horny all of the time. We have rules. We don’t hook up with someone if we’re in the same city without the other one being involved. But if he’s out of town, I’ll hook up with someone. I’ll call and be like, “Is that OK?” We’re honest and communicate.

THOUGHTS?

18 comments:

  1. As long as both men are in agreement with the arrangement, practice safe sex and respect each other, then there should be no problem. As long as we're denied the right to marry, then why should we restrict our relationships to the heterosexual model? If we can't have it legally, then we all enjoy the freedom to create our own version of a couple.

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    1. A younger me would be like wth? But @ this stage of my I open to other's way of being twogether.

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    2. Maybe I'll have to mature a bit more to be understanding. I mean, I understand, but I'm still like "wth?" LOL. I get it though. As long as they are happy.

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    3. It takes a whole lot of knowing yourself and where you fit in this world.

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  2. I wish these two crazy kids all the luck in the world. In their biz, they'll mos def NEED it!

    One.

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  3. One thing I like about gay relationships is that the sexuality is so honest.

    I applaud these two. If this type of relationships works out for them more power to them.

    I know some couples who are like this. And I know others who strive for physical and emotional monogamy.

    Immanuel
    dlconfessionsequel.wordpress.com

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    1. I LOVE the honesty that comes from our sexuality even if we acknowledge it or not.

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  4. I know a few couples who this kind of relationship works for. So long as they remain honest with each other I see how it would work. I could totally do a relationship like that. I don't see sex as that big of a deal. A relationship is more about honesty and communication than sex.

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  5. My boyfriend is a lot more old fashioned. Got offered a threesome once and thought he was going to commit murder: D. Little on the possessive side. I blame him being an only child he never learned to share.

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    1. No he is the last, but he wouldn't be open to threesomes and stuff like that.

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  6. C's like that. I'd be cool , but I know it would make him crazy. And he is enough to make me happy.

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    1. Glad that we get experience certain joys of live n love.

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  7. Wow, a lot fo buzz on this one.!!!!

    Regardless of whether or not our union is sanctioned by the "State", my partner and I define our committed relationship as monogamous.

    We know a number of couples in LTRs who have so-called "Open" relationships and if it works for them, fine.

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