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Wednesday, 29 June 2011

¿DO YOU F&CK LIKE A PORN STAR?

When it comes to bareback porn, do you think it is art imitating life or…?  Many will argue for both sides of this question and that is fine, but I have to wonder when the dust settles, where does the line between fantasy AND responsibility begin? From I knew my gay self; I’ve seen VERY little porn that shows the actors putting on a condom. So either way ‘safe sex’ is a mute point from the porn industry, right? Some say that porn’s role is to entertain, not educate, and I LOVE watching porn that showcases what I do, but I am in a committed relationship. Do you think bareback sex in porn influences real-life behavior or do you think it doesn’t matter since it is just a form of entertainment?

10 comments:

  1. Personally, in this day and time, I don't bareback. It simply isn't safe and I have too much self respect to even think about it. Now, that's just me and I believe to each his own. However, art does mirror life and reality and there are many of our brothers who do engage in bareback intimacy. This is their decision and I trust their judgment.

    Now, do I fuck like a porn star? Perhaps. I have had partners who wanted seconds, thirds, fourths, etc. Did I fuck them too gently? I don't think so, as that isn't my style. Did I offer my ass too willingly? Well, they did cum back for more.

    Great question, my brother! Good for the community to ponder! As always, you are on point!

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  2. It's probably a little bit of both. On one hand porn is entertainment, but at the same time it can make sexual behavior that was once fringe mainstream, so it does have some influence.

    While I understand the danger and risk involved in barebacking, especially in a sex party/online hookup scene, I view it as slightly different in a long-term, monogamous relationship. What's the difference between straight couple that's been together for 5, 10, 15 or 20 years not using condoms and a gay couple doing the same thing?

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  3. It's a bit of both....but I think that sometimes the gay culture can leave men feeling the need to integrate porn fantasy into real life! When this happens, it can be dangerous - men feeling like gods for bareback f**king just like what they saw.

    It's a double edged sword!

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  4. While I strongly believe in, and practice, safe sex exclusively I like bareback porn. Porn is entertainment and meant to provide a fantasy. I wouldn't have unprotected sex in my own life, but I think it's hot in porn.

    I don't think it influences many viewers. Many watchers of porn should be adults and have enough common sense to know that what they see on television (or computer screen) is merely for entertainment purposes only. Any decision to copy the behavior is a personal choice that maybe would have taken place without ever watching bareback porn.

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  5. ROGER: YOU NEED TO PUT YOUR ESCAPADES IN THE BLOG-O-VERSE!

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  6. KEVIN: I THINK YOU ARE RIGHT, PERSONS IN LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS CAN F&CK LIKE PORN STARS!

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  7. STEVEA: IT CERTAINLY IS, I LOOK @ THE WAY PORN IS DONE, THERE IS NO CARING JUST PURE F&CKING.

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  8. TREY: YOU WOULDN'T HAVE BAREBACK SEX IN A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP?

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  9. @thegayte-keeper: I can't say for certain. There is no guarantee that both parties are faithful, and if they aren't, there is no guarantee they are being safe outside the relationship.

    I would have to have unconditional trust for the guy.

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  10. TREY: I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND WHERE YOU @ FROM WHAT I READ ON YOUR BLOG. BUT IN TIME AS YOU MOVE FURTHER CERTAIN THINGS WILL BECOME CLEARER...

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