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Friday, 19 June 2009

OLDIE, BUT GOODIE: ¿CAN IT BE LUV...EVER?


I WROTE THIS BLOG ENTRY ABOUT SOMEONE TWO PERSONS THAT REALIZED THAT THEY HAD A STRONG CONNECTION WITH EACH…BUT PROBLEM, ONE SAYS HE HETERO & THE OTHER SAYS HE IS HOMO…SO AS I THOUGHT ABOUT THEIR SITUATION, I COULDN’T HELP BUT WRITE ABOUT & SEE WHAT OTHERS THOUGHT ABOUT IT…& THOUGH THEY NEVER CAN TO BE, I CAN’T HELP BUT WONDER IF ON SOME LEVEL A RELATIONSHIP LIKE THAT CAN WORK? AFTER ALL LABELS ARE JUST LABELS…RIGHT?
I ask myself this because in this community I’ve come across persons that date OR convert HETEROSEXUAL MEN & WOMEN. Now I sit and ponder how or why do these relationships come to be and are they realistic? Do they have a chance to become forever after? I know that we know what we want SEXUALLY (even when we pretend that we don’t) and I know that we gay men and women seem to be the litmus for SEXUALITY; and the world sees us as catalysts that can bring that their hidden sexually selves to surface. So can a hetero man or woman really be bent? Can seemingly polar opposites make a relationship work? I think YES, but they have to make sure they have the one thing the rest of the world denies us…LOVE. They have to go deep within and find the resolve to build a life that needs no one’s approval. They have to live with a renew hope that LOVE has no eyes; and LOVE means your heart sees the person and not the gender. In this instance SEXUALITY is fluid and can takes it true form. This means that LOVE is LOVE no matter who, what, where and why; it just is and it’s one of the few things on this earth that we as humans have no control over. I know for a fact love deals with you how you deal with it and our hearts are the key to eternal happiness. So why do we allow the SEX of person deter or transform what love exist? I get that it is scary for a HETERO to ask, does this mean I was always same-sex-prone? And if so, how can I live comfortably with another same-sex-prone individual? Can someone tell how or why does the trapping of society make it so hard for persons to be with whom their same-sex-prone hearts so desires? We all know that there is an immediate connection when the energies of two persons recognize each other and they know they are meant to be. This LOVE is SO powerful, yet the world keep getting in the way…This type of connection makes me believe that souls do pass from one lifetime to another seeking out each other and gender doesn’t matter @ all. This LOVE can be magical if only they can allow their minds, bodies N’ souls to become one…¿DO YOU THINK A LOVE BETWEEN A HOMOSEXUAL & A HETEROSEXUAL HAVE A CHANCE OF BECOME SOMETHING REAL?



8 comments:

  1. The HUMAN is so complicated and you can't have 2 humen be the same.
    So, sometimes it could be possible that an homo and an hetero can can be in love. But, to create a 100% true love between the 2 is almost irrealistic I should say.
    If the hetero becomes really a homo type, and be free of any link with hetero thought, so it can be partially possible, I really said PARTIALLY POSSIBLE. LOVE HAS TO BE AT 100% ; Otherwise: IT WILL BE NEVER POSSIBLE.
    Hoping it will help our understanding about the situation.
    This is my deep thought.
    Continue your fantastic work my dear friend. You are creating constanly a curiosity and questioning. These are is your goals, and I am proud of you. You are going in the right direction.
    Your friend from Canada
    S.

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  2. I thought I was the only one who often thought about this topic.

    There are times when I 'feel' how it would feel like for a hetero and a homosexual to be together (I know I can be weird sometimes, but it's how it is).So from my perspective, it is possible. I don't know why I think in this way, but I feel that sometimes we create boundaries where it's not even necessary. Just my thinking.

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  3. Love has made people do crazy things but I feel they can but a true straight man CANNOT be turned out. They had to be something there already for him to be "turned out".

    Alot of men walking around here are gay or bi but playing straight. I've had many men who appear straight try to get at me - even with girlfriends or wives in tow.

    The world is changing and ALOT more men are experimenting.

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  4. Friends yes and love each other as friends yes, lovers no. I have tried this and it just doesn't work either you are prone to one gender or the other.

    Now I can rememer Derrick being totally Hetro, but inside he was just awaiting to move to the other side, he had become a lover of his own image (man).

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  5. I agree with insidejamarifox. I don't think a "straight" man can be turned out. Personally, i'm sick of labels. It's no one's business who has sex with who or who loves who. What's the difference? Love is love. It's a shame that society makes it so hard for people to just be who they are. If that happened, we would all be much happier.

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  6. I'm skeptical that a truly straight man can be transformed into a homosexual. It is possible to maintain a meaningful relationship on the basis of platonic love or brotherly love, but not on the basis of erotic love, unless some homosexual tendencies are already present. Of course, some men with minor homosexual tendencies may repress that side of their nature and may not be fully aware of the complexities of their sexuality....

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  7. LOVE YES!!! definetely......Sex....im not sure. But sex doesnt equal love. As we should all know.

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  8. ANONYMOUS – THANK YOU FOR YOUR COMMENT…

    MISS SHALLOTTE – YOU ARE SO RIGHT ABOUT US CREATING BOUNDARIES WHEN THEY ARE NOT NEEDED…

    JAMARI – THEY ARE EXPERIMENTING INDEED…

    CHET – I ALWAYS LOOK FORWARD TO YOUR OPINION…

    SCORNED WOMAN – THAT MAKES TWO OF US THAT ARE SICK OF LABELS…

    ULTRAGREEN – I UNDERSTAND WHY YOU ARE SKEPTICAL, BUT ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE IN THIS LIFE…

    TRU3LOGIC – GLAD YOU THINK SO…L(O)L!!!

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