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Monday, 01 June 2009

ALONE N' SCARED...


So many gay men has mastered the art of secrecy and though I believe that no one person should know everything there is to know about you, I can’t help but wonder if in our quest to be private if we aren’t hurting ourselves in the process? I understand that we are victims, but when we discover the truth about who we are, shouldn’t that change our lives for the better? So many of us PRAY for change, but we guard ourselves from each other because reinventing the wheel is too much work and hiding from ourselves is much easier…right? When are we going to see how this fear causes survival fatigue for OUR community? From HIV to HOMOPHOBIA we slowly die inside when we don’t have too…If only each and every one of us try to combat the resultant solitude by allowing the community to do what it is suppose to do. No man is an island and though mankind is King, I feel we can learn something from insect world. Yes we can squash them with our mighty power, but they work together as a team. They cannot and do not survive as individuals; they survive as members of a group, and the group’s survival is the implicit goal of each individual’s life. There is no concept of life outside the group as far they are concerned, so we need to get ourselves together AND boldly grow into the community without fearing each other…Aren’t you tired of gay men UNCONSCIOUSLY projecting the thoughts AND feelings of others that aren’t good for them AND us as a community? Our soul longs to fulfill the purpose we agreed to in the timelessness in which we existed before our birth. And because of this the universe will NOT direct your path into a community that you should you fear…SO THE TIME TO WALK WITH AWARENESS HAS BEEN LONG GONE & WE CAN CATCH UP, BUT IN ORDER FOR US TO DO SO WE NEED TO ASSUME THAT THINGS WE THINK ABOUT THE GAY COMMUNITY IS BASED ON FALSEHOOD & QUELL THEM WITH FACTS! WE CAN’T CONTINUE TO LIVE IN FEAR OF A COMMUNITY THAT IS OUR HOME & WE NEED TO TRUST EACH OTHER WITH UNHINDERED OPTIMISM IF WE ARE TO PUT AN END TO FEELING ALONE N’ SCARED…





8 comments:

  1. Well stated young man, but the quest to come together as a community often falls on deaf ears, yes it is sad that many members of the community tend to live a lie, hiding from the truth.

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  2. Gayte- You are by far, the best Sage for the Gay Black Blogging Community I know brother. Preach. I'd love if you reposted this on MALE blog.

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  3. I love the way you support your Gay Community.....muah!

    I support them too!!

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  4. CHET – I KNOW THAT THE MESSAGE FALLS ON DEAF EARS, BUT THAT WON’T STOP ME FROM BRINGING IT…

    IAN – ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS ASK & I WILL GRANT YOU YOUR WISH…

    BJORNS – THANK YOU

    OYIN – WE NEED MORE SUPPORT…THANKS FOR YOURS…

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  5. I think gays definitely hide things and keep things from each other simply because of the gay stigma where we beat each other down as opposed to build each other up so we hold things in just to preserve our sanity while its actually hurting us.

    I have realized that new people in the gay community often learn their sassy, arrogant, I'm better than you attitude from the way another gay has treated them while in their "gay puberty" stage of learning about the gay lifestyle. so its an endless chain of gaying it forward

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  6. NOBLE P - I LIKE THE WAY YOU PUT IT...

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  7. Im here for you whenever you need me...just know that!

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