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Friday, 29 May 2009

LIVING APART TWOGETHER


So today Noel leaves for his 3 month internship which is the last leg of getting his degree. Of course I am EXTREMELY happy for him; I can’t help but miss him and no how hard I tried over the last month to imagine him not being here, I couldn’t. Noel says that I should see it as just 12 weeks, but it hard to do that when you’ve spent everyday with each other for almost 2 years…So we’ll be LIVING APART TWOGETHER. Though LIVING APART TOGETHER simply is a term for couples who, whilst committed to each other, decide to have separate homes rather than one shared residence, I feel that Noel going to Antigua and my living in the Bahamas qualifies to an extent even though it falls into the long distance relationship category. I know that something like this is a test for a relationship, but feel that our chances are GREAT! Besides we get the IMMENSE pleasure of playing with each other’s minds until our bodies return to each other…I know that TRUE LOVE can overcome any odds thrown in its path and I look forward to the months ahead…I know that I couldn’t do this if Noel and I didn’t VALUE TRUST, understood that HONEST is the BEST policy and PATIENCE wasn’t a VIRTUE…SO AS I COUNT THE SUNRISES N’ SUNSETS, I WILL HOLD POOCHIE (OUR STUFF DOG/CHILD) TIGHT AS HE COMFORTS ME IN THE BED THAT NOEL & I SHARE EVERY NIGHT UNTIL HIS RETURN TO US…

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  1. Stay strong, love will keep y'all tight

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  2. They say "Distance makes the heart grow fonder". Here is a chance to prove the theory. This experience will be as beautiful as you make it. You guys look great, by the way.

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  3. i love the honesty u bring to light. the sincere emotion displayed in ur posts. You guys will be ok...remember i have a wedding to perform some spoken word in *smiles* this is just another test that you will weather. God bless Noel and your union...oh did i mention y'all cute as hell together? lol well you are!

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  4. Feeling for the 2 of you.

    The rest of us will also keep you company along with Poochie.

    Hugs.

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  5. Ya'll are cute together!

    While it does suck being apart from one another, this is a great opportunity to explore each others minds, and really perfect your communication skills.

    *hugs* You'll be fine hun!

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  6. I feel u buddy, but like everyone above said...U'll be Fine.((HUGZ)) I'm in the same boat....my BF just got a prestigious fellowships to Georgetown and will be leaving to DC for 1 year. I'm happy and proud of him but at the same time it makes me sad. But as long as you have good communication and the relationship is built on Honesty..then all willl be FINE.

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  7. I can only imagine what it feels like to have to part with someone who's been a constant presence for this substantial period of time.

    I can only imagine that you'll miss his being there and the things you would do together.
    But as long as long as you know it in your heart and are self-assured that there's trust, respect and honesty between the two of you, then everything will be fine.

    And besides, time is a funny thing. It can go by so quickly if you occupy it with something worthy. Before you know it, the three months will be over.

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  8. Just look to the future my brutha. Look at the fruits that both of you will share when this is all over and you'll find that the good will out weigh the bad. Be good and as cOnn3tion said, we'll keep you company.

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  9. Baby in as much as i tried to imagine us being apart-nothing could have prepared me for the way i felt when I was in the departure lounge. Tears just started to flow. I knew it would have been difficult but didn't realise it would have been this difficult. First night away from each other in about a year and a half and I struggled to fall asleep and I've just been feeling off. I don't have the energy to do anything nor do i feel interested in doing anything.
    As i wait in Kingston for my flight to Antigua tomorrow I feel like I want to return to Nassau to be with you and just forget about going to Antigua. It is so hard being without you,so hard. I am trying babes but it is so difficult. I take solace in knowing we still are able to communicate -thank God for messenger and skype. I LOVE U BABY and I MISS U SOOOOOOO MUCH. IT hurts so much but I am already counting down and 12 weeks would soon be over. CAN'T WAIT TO BE BACK WITH YOU..........
    Thank you to everyone for your supportive words and well wishes.

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  10. I hope the time goes quickly for both of you. Based on his comment (above), that is one loving man you have. Cherish him.

    XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

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  11. Awww he will be back to u soon buddy ;)

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  12. WONDER MAN – THAT AIN’T A BAD THING @ ALL…

    THE ANTONYM – YOU ARE SO RIGHT…THANK YOU FOR YOUR KIND WORDS…

    PRO’S HOOD – HONESTY IS WHO I AM…I KNOW WE’LL BE OKAY & OUR UNION WILL COME OUT STRONGER ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THIS…THANK YOU SO MUCH!

    C0NN3CTION – THANK YOU…LORD KNOWS I’LL NEED THE COMPANY FROM TIME TO TIME…

    SOZO – THANK YOU…YEAH ARE SO RIGHT…

    DEEWAN – I AM GLAD THAT I HAVE SOMEONE THAT KNOWS HOW THIS FEELS…THANK YOU FOR LETTING ME KNOW THAT…

    MISS SHALLOTTE – OKAY!!! AS I POST THESE COMMENTS I AM WIPING AWAY TEARS…YOUR WORDS MAKE ME FEEL LIKE YOU WERE HERE WITH US FROM THE BEGINNING & YOU KNOW EXACTLY HOW I FEEL…

    FLABRUH05 – I AM SO IN THE FUTURE…SO WHEN ARE WE GOING TO GRAB THAT CUP OF COFFEE?

    OSSIE – BABY I DIDN’T THINK IT WOULD BE THIS HARD EITHER…I TELL MYSELF THAT YOU ARE GOING TO DO SOMETHING FOR 12 WEEKS & THINGS WILL BE FINE, BUT I SEE 3 MONTHS & THOUGH I KNOW THINGS ARE FINE & WILL BE DURING THE TIME OF ABSENCE, I CAN’T WAIT FOR THIS TIME TO PASS…I LOVE YOU SO MUCH & I WANT US TO NEVER BE WITHOUT EACH FOR SUCH A LONG PERIOD EVER AGAIN…I AM SO GLAD THAT WE CHERISHED EVERY MINUTE WITH EACH OTHER & TOOK THE TIME TO CULTIVATE OUR LOVE FOR EACH OTHER…

    DAVID DUST – THAT’S MAKES 3 OF US…HE IS A LOVING MAN & I DO CHERISH HIM…

    DEONTE’ K – NOT SOON ENOUGH FOR ME….

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  13. What? The Bahamas? Since when?

    (Am I slow, or does no one tell me anything around here 'cos I'm the kinda white boi?)

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  14. KA-OS - I FEEL LIKE THE SLOW ONE HERE...BUT YOU HAVEN'T BEEN ON THIS SIDE OF THE WORLD IN A BIT SO...

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  15. U both are 2 people who i admire continuously. The way u navigate ur relationship is just amazing to me. This time apart will fly by. Ur baby will be back in ur arms before u know it. As long as u both stay true to eachother the way u always have. A love like urs is rare.

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  16. Yes, love (real and true) will conquer all. This time will pass on and it'll be like nothing ever happened. It'll probably strengthen the bond that you two have. It may be a little rough but you will make it. Just look forward his return - the time when you'll no longer be apart....

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  17. Kisha! Wow!

    That man is going to Antigua not only to to tie up the loose end toward getting his degree, but he's coming back better equipped to make life for BOTH of you a little bit more stable. Let him do it! He will be fine and so will you! I don't even see this as a TEST for your relationship, but nothing more than a natural progression IN or OF your relationship. Don't relegate what you have with Noel to "long distance relationship" when what you have with him is SO MUCH MORE SOLID THAN THAT! Your "chances" as you say are soo much more than that! Your chances have ALREADY BEEN PROVEN ! ! !

    Marvin and I have never been apart like that in all the time we've been together. I understand and recognize that if a seperation of a few months had occured in our second year together, I might have been a little more apprehensive than I'd be now. In fact, I wouldn't be "worried" at all now, and just might consider it healthy. Make the best of your time apart. Start getting ready NOW for his welcome home party of TWO! Do what you KNOW and what you GOTTA! If your blog is any indication ~ I know how CREATIVE you are!

    When I saw the two of you in the photo here, my heart just leaped with happiness for you! You two look BEAUTIFUL together! You ARE beautiful TWOGETHER ! The time will pass before you know it!

    Don't worry and you'll be happIER, baby!

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  18. This message will go out to both Kishna & Noel. I have had the best time with the both of you. I see how you both love each other and I admire how you interact with each other. I sooo envy your relationship one couldnt ask for a better one . I love how Noel doesnt respond to such remarks on your blog page...not knowing if "we" are joking or not. Kishna I love your whole temperment...you are one of a kind. Noel you are sweet as pie. The two of you made my best buddy list and you'll never be forgotten.NMW

    I know that the two of you will really miss each other. Love like yours is almost unknown. I completely understand how it feels to be without your love one for ANY period of time...but damn 3 months, whew. Just hang in there guys things will be back to normal soonest. Just know that once Noel is home ITS PARTY TIME...muah!!!

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  19. TRU3LOGIC – THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR BEING THERE FOR ME & NOEL….

    BUDDAHDESMOND – THANK YOU & I WILL…I KNOW THAT TIME GOES BY SO QUICKLY & IT IS ONLY A MATTER OF ADJUSTING UNTIL HE RETURNS WHERE HE BELONGS…

    COREY – YOU ARE ONE OF THE MEN THAT I LOOK UP TO…YOUR WORDS HERE TODAY MEAN SO MUCH TO ME & I THANK YOU FOR THEM…YOU ARE SO RIGHT ON EVERYTHING YOU TOUCHED ON & WHEN I GET LONELY OR FEEL LIKE I AM GOING CRAZY, I WILL COME HERE & READ YOUR WORDS…

    OYIN – I MISSED YOUR VOICE ON THIS SUBJECT GIVEN THAT YOU’VE MET BOTH NOEL & I…THANK YOU FOR SEEING & BELIEVING IN OUR LOVE…I AM PLANNING THE PARTY AS I TYPE THIS…L(O)L!!!

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  20. OK OK....and Im there. Just let me know when I should fly in. Umm, did that sound right, or is my mind in the damn gutter again..lol

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