My boyfriend and I have been together for a year, and we really love one another. There's nothing better than when we cuddle and make love, and my favorite thing is when he puts his head on me and just lies there. But we have one problem that has made things frustrating: We're both bottoms.
Normally his favorite position is to sit on a guy's penis while the other guy lies on his back. I thought this would be great for us because that's the only position where I've had any success as a top, but the couple times we've done it, it hasn't been very exciting. He has topped me and I thought it went well, but he thought it was only "okay."
Even though my boyfriend doesn't say it's a problem, I know he's disappointed. I'm very oral and I could be satisfied with a good oral sex life, but we both want more. The big question, is can two bottoms have a good anal sex life?