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Thursday, 14 June 2012

FROM BOY TO MAN


BELOW IS A SNIPPET OF A CHAT SESSION I HAD WITH FRIEND OF MINE THAT I RECONNECTED WITH. THIS CHAT SESSION REMINDED OF WHERE I CAME FROM & WHERE I AM NOT. I WOULD SAY THAT 90% OF THE 'OLDER' MEN THAT I TALKED TO BACK WOULDN'T DATE ME BECAUSE OF MY AGE & I CAN'T SAY THAT I BLAME THEM BECAUSE BEING OLDER I GET WHERE THEY WAS COMING FROM. HOWEVER, WHAT I DO DIFFERENTLY IS THAT I ANALYZE EACH MAN AS AN INDIVIDUAL & NOT AS JUST ANOTHER YOUNG GUY COMING MY WAY. SOMETHING MANY OF THEM SAID THAT THEY REGRETTED NOT DOING WHEN IT CAME TO ME. SO READ THIS & LET ME KNOW YOUR THOUGHTS, THANKS!

HIM: hey there

ME: hello hru?

HIM: doing well and u?

ME: I b good sir
no complaints

HIM: I like your profile pic

ME: thanks took it @ work

HIM: you look so much more mature now
ME: lol so back then I looked?

HIM: well younger, but your looks have gone from a boy to a man
ME: yep they sure have

HIM: if you were single.....hmmm

ME: if I were single what sir?

HIM: I would want to date you

ME: so back then I was too young?

HIM: I think so...saw you differently
you actually always seemed mature for your age to me
I respected how you stood up for your views

ME: still do lol
HIM: I know got that from our conversation a few weeks ago

ME: really? ok

HIM: yup
ME: trying to remember our convo

HIM: we reconnected online and chatted for a while very stimulating conversation

ME: nice 2 know I can still stimulate a man

HIM: lol...you know you can
what did you think of me?

ME: thought u was nice
Cool
a good man to date
that could NOT see pass my age

HIM: lol...did you really think that before I said that?

ME: yeah

HIM: well I guess our timing was off

ME: no it wasn't
it was just right
can't make happen what ain't suppose 2 happen

HIM: I was use to dating older guys when it came to serious relationships

ME: shows me that I have grown cause back then...

HIM: it seemed that younger guys only wanted sex or someone to take care of them

ME: true
I still want sex DAILY that won't ever change about me

HIM: well same here, but I want more than that some just want a person to have sex with

ME: true

HIM: what were you going to say about back then?

ME: ?

HIM: you typed earlier back then...and didn't complete it

ME: oh that who I was didn't transfer well

HIM: ok how old are you now?

ME: 34

HIM: not that much younger than me...late thirties here

ME: got there a little over a month ago
well now it seems like wow okay not that far off in age
but back then the gap seem so wide

HIM: yes

ME: yeah

6 comments:

  1. Thanks for sharing this helpful info! Naturenergi

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  2. I totally do not want anything to do with younger guys, so I totally understand that.

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    1. I get what you are saying, but I can't throw all young guys under the bus.

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    2. I guess I just think if you're younger that you have too much shit to work through. Teenagers, fuck that. I don't get how C copes with me half the time. Luckily he is patient, me not so much. Probably why I like older guys.

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    3. You are right and I am happy that C saw pass all of that and took this journey with you.

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