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Sunday, 01 February 2009

SOME HUMBLE ADVICE...


WITH THE FIRST MONTH BEHIND US SO FAR, I HOPE THAT YOU ARE FOCUSED & HAS TAKEN THOSE BABY STEPS IN BECOMING A BETTER PERSON. THIS SUNDAY, I HAVE ONLY ADVICE TO FURTHER AID YOU ON THAT JOURNEY & I HOPE THAT THEY BRING YOU SOME INSIGHT…


1.      Go through your cell phone, caller id, calendar, and email addresses and discard all the people and events that mean you no good or don’t benefit your life!


2.      Stop making excuses about your life and make changes!


3.      If you are involved with a person, job, or circumstance that is doing more harm than good, do yourself a favor - LET IT GO!


4.      Take care of your kids and devote a weekend or two when you spend QUALITY time with them. Who cares if you miss out on a "mix"! You canparty anytime!


5.      Get your debt in order! Eventually you'll want a nice home and car in your name!


6.      Stop spreading senseless rumors and try to get your own life in order!


7.      Listen more! Talk Less!


8.      Give without worrying about it!


9.      Tell him/her no for once!


10.  Tell people you love them before your hear about some great tragedy in the world or lose a close friend!


11.  Speak clearly and not ignorantly! Anyone can be a fool.


12.  Stop being someone's person on the side; ESPECIALLY if you are aware that you are!


13.  See how long you can go without checking your cell phone when it's not ringing.


14.  Appreciate everyone. WHY do we put each other down for the most ridiculous things?!?


15.  Men and women! Cry more! It's therapeutic!


16.  Stop tripping about not being where you want to be! What have you been doing to get there?!?


17.  If you aren't in relationship, it's not the end of the world! Self love is way more valuable!


18.  FORGIVE! FORGIVE! FORGIVE! All of us have been forgiven for some low life things! So open your heart! Remember - God forgave you.


19. Men, stop trying to be so hard when it comes to relationships. Let that guard down before you lose the one that's meant for you!


20.  Speak up for yourself!


21.  Live today like it's your last day, love like God taught us, and laugh like you've never laughed before!  

17 comments:

  1. I really need to take some of your advice and get busy doing what I need to do.

    Thank you for your motivational posts.

    XOXOXOXOXO

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  2. dint know crying was therapeutic.huh.about forgiving this is a serious issue mate.thank for the advice.

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  3. 14 AND 15 Got me together Gayte! Great Advice. I need to print this out and put this next to my computer lmao!

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  4. I clearly have a lot to change this year.

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  5. Let's see. I can check off numbers 1, 3, 4, 10, 11, 18, 20.

    I can/need to work on numbers 3, 5, 7, 14, 15, 16, 21

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  6. GOOD MORNING SWEETNESS.....!!!! HAVE BEEN MISSING YOU (WHAT'S NEW).

    ANYWAYS, JUST POPPING IN TO SAY 'VERY GOOD ADVICE', VERY NICELY SUMMARISED. AND YEAH, NO POINT IN READING ALL THAT AND FAILING TO APPLY IT.

    I WAS GONNA EXPAND ON YOUR WORDS OF WISDOM, (YOU KNOW I HAVE TO SAY SOMETHING) BUT I THOUGHT, AG, WHAT YOU SAID IS ENOUGH. IT'S UP TO US TO DO WHAT IS NECESSARY.

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  7. you know for some reason I have already done soooo. Heres the funny thing. I changed phone ( I told you this already) but once I change phone I never add the old numbers to my new phone. When someone calls me (If the really love me) then I would save it to my phone...lol

    Well except for the last time...I tried to get my most important numbers that I would need.... yours, mom, dad,...ie. But my phone locked and I couldnt get any...lol

    But yes, I have left all people that mean me no good in my life.

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  8. SCORNED WOMAN - I AM GLAD THAT YOU APPROVE...DON'T BE A STRANGER...

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  9. See, just one of the reasons I like your blog so much is because you are about STARTING WITH THE MAN IN THE MIRROR! WHOEVER it's reflecting back on! That's is where change happens FIRST! Thank you for subtly (and sometimes not so subtly) reminding us!

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  10. All of these i can say im truly applying

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  11. VERY GOOD ADVICE......SOME OF THINGS I ALREADY DO BUT OTHERS I NEED TO INCORPORATE AND APPLY.....

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