THE MARRYING "UN~KIND"

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It always amazes me how the PULSE of the GAY community is on the streets N’ sidewalk and NOT in the lives of the everyday GAY man. Never had this statement been more true than when the topic of GAY MARRIAGE or CIVIL UNIONS come about. We hear the church and politicians speak about it, even community leaders have their say. For me I find it sad that no matter WHO or WHAT we are, we seem to have this need to belong AND be like the rest of the when we are NOT!

THERE ARE NO TWO PERSONS THAT ARE ALIKE! Though NOT all GAY men are the same, how is that MOST of us are NOT fit to be in a relationship much less a commitment such as marriage? I find it a bit comical listening to HETEROS foam @ the mouth about the sanctity of marriage AND how we are about to destroy that; I expect that from them. However when GAY men take on this same idea AND run with it, it makes me fume! HOW CAN THEY DO THIS TO THEMSELVES? DON’T THEY KNOW BETTER?

ISN’T IT CRAZY TO BE GAY & NOT BE OKAY WITH WHO YOU ARE? How could they NOT see that their denial of WHO they are is @ the very least a mild form of HOMOPHOBIA? FOR ME MARRIAGE SYMBOLIZES THE HIGHTST FORM OF ROMANTIC LOVE; FOR IT TO BE PERMITTED TO ONLY THOSE THAT HAVE UNMATCHED GENITALS IS CRAZY! But then again, so many GAY men are not marriage material because they aren’t even human material; @ least in the ways in which it counts.

MOST GAY MEN NEED TO ASK HIMSELF WHY HE FEELS THE WAY HE DOES ABOUT HIS SEXUALITY? WHY IS THAT HE CAN’T SEEM TO FIND SOME PEACE WITHIN HIMSELF? WHEN THE ANSWERS COME I HOPE IT IS NOT TOO LATE. OUR SEXUALITY WAS HERE BEFORE WE WERE, SO IT’S NAÏVE TO THINK THAT IT IS SOMETHING THAT CAUSES US TO HAVE NO REAL PURPOSE OR IS SUITABLE FOR THE COMMITMENT OF MARRIAGE. I WOULD LOVE IT IF MOST GAY MEN DIDN’T SEEM TO CARE ABOUT TAKING THAT STEP IF THEY SIMPLY HAD SOMEONE TO SHARE THEIR LIVES WITH; BUT THAT IS NOT THE CASE! WHAT GETS ME IS HOW THE DOGMAS SHUT THE DOORS TO KNOWLEDGE & PROGRESS & WE GIVE THEM EVERY REASON TO DO SO & I DARE SOMEONE TO LIVE OTHERWISE!