tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post6288306195575035441..comments2023-10-21T04:20:20.452-04:00Comments on iAm(A)ga(Y)te-keeper is SEXUALITY, LOVE, LIFE...: ¡GET OUT OF YOUR DATING COMFORT-ZONE!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14948903601663342276noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-90886773238552879772012-09-14T11:28:54.645-04:002012-09-14T11:28:54.645-04:00@ least you gave it the ole college try :-)@ least you gave it the ole college try :-)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14948903601663342276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-2898446871596419182012-09-14T11:26:43.615-04:002012-09-14T11:26:43.615-04:00I know what you mean, even to this day I have vari...I know what you mean, even to this day I have various type of men that appeal to me. Just had a convo with friend on how he can't stand the thought of kissing a white guy. I was like here we go, here we go.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14948903601663342276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-64109545538962398452012-09-14T10:04:01.446-04:002012-09-14T10:04:01.446-04:00I son't think I've ever had a type. Thoug...I son't think I've ever had a type. Though the where was mostly the same. 2 gay bars in my entire city. jamiessmileshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14150972137054126110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-60689572209358899892012-09-13T09:21:21.189-04:002012-09-13T09:21:21.189-04:00I've tried giving men i wasn't attracted t...I've tried giving men i wasn't attracted to who approached me a chance. It was a very much a "lets see where this goes" type of thing. I am very much the old fashioned type you mentioned. They all ended up in the same sort of way. So getting out of my comfort zone would be going after men im attracted to and hoping for the best. My only issue with approaching first is i don't want to set the standard that i will be doing ALL of the initiating and subsequently being the dominant one in a relationship. That role is not who I'd like to be. Plus, i find that approaching men, as a beta male, often makes alpha men assume you are "thirsty" or "desperate." Perhaps in the black gay world at least...<br /><br />Also, in going to different venues, i question whether gay black men will be there. Spending time in places they do not often frequent sounds counter-productive to me. And perhaps it isn't just going to a different venue as it is going to places and approaching people as well. Even thats tricky as your gaydar will need to be set on high sensitivity.UrSoVainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09540946228997645274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-43322217653314697952012-09-13T08:14:54.632-04:002012-09-13T08:14:54.632-04:00I know what you mean, I will be celebrating 5 year...I know what you mean, I will be celebrating 5 years next monthAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14948903601663342276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-34870940252025758972012-09-13T00:53:42.827-04:002012-09-13T00:53:42.827-04:00These are excellent suggestions, my friend! Good i...These are excellent suggestions, my friend! Good ideas that make sense. Unfortunately, love doesn't always make sense or follow a specific pattern. Every once in a proverbial "blue moon," you simply have to take a chance and let love take control. I did. And now, almost four years later, it's just as good as that first night! Roger Poladopouloshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17066431272489975794noreply@blogger.com