tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post4427338119077928142..comments2023-10-21T04:20:20.452-04:00Comments on iAm(A)ga(Y)te-keeper is SEXUALITY, LOVE, LIFE...: STAGES OF A GAY RELATIONSHIPAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14948903601663342276noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-16829867171434117132008-12-17T12:02:00.000-05:002008-12-17T12:02:00.000-05:00I LOVE THIS POST. I THINK INFORMATION LIKE THIS IS...I LOVE THIS POST. I THINK INFORMATION LIKE THIS IS IMPORTANT AND USEFUL FOR US AS GAY MEN AND SERVES AS A HOW GUIDE FOR OUR RELATIONSHIPS. THIS IS SOMETHING THAT HAS BEEN LACKING IN OUR COMMUNITY.<BR/> BABY I CAN'T WAIT TO EXPERIENCE EACH STAGE WITH YOU.I AM LOOKING FORWARD TO THAT MORE THAN ANYTHING.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-24914881216241284182008-12-01T19:52:00.000-05:002008-12-01T19:52:00.000-05:00What I would like to see is the percentage of gay ...What I would like to see is the percentage of gay relationships that make it to each stage... that would be interesting.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-19156110916954609622008-11-13T16:36:00.000-05:002008-11-13T16:36:00.000-05:00Wow. Ummmmm that was truly amazing. I have NEVER...Wow. Ummmmm that was truly amazing. I have NEVER made it past stage 1. I think, actually scratch that...I KNOW it's the whole power struggle thing with me. Iono, time will tell.<BR/><BR/>Oh and I don't think I like stage 6. That looks (by the picture) and sounds depressing! LoL.<BR/><BR/>~Damnit!bLaQ~n~MiLDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07875175151911527789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-87581728340909631592008-11-13T14:33:00.000-05:002008-11-13T14:33:00.000-05:00I love this post! I'm glad that I stumbled upon i...I love this post! I'm glad that I stumbled upon it. One of the things that hurts us as gay men is the lack of mentors and role models, like you mentioned. It's not just in relationship building but just in life. I've always committed myself to ensure no young brother or sister grows up in the hell that I did. I'm especially delighted to hear about sustaining a gay relationship. Many of us don't have a clue about that. And we usually don't get past Stage 1 and rarely past stage 2. In "gay" years, 3 or 4 years is like 20. My partner and I will have been together for 9 years in May 2009. I can say that your assessment is really spot on. I communicate these very things to others but have never had it written down. I'm gonna "borrow" yours...I wish you well in your own undertakings and relationship and I hope we can grow together.The Dochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05331411720944630632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-7064870183070172752008-11-13T13:43:00.000-05:002008-11-13T13:43:00.000-05:00I tell u, after reading this post and reading the ...I tell u, after reading this post and reading the comments of the other people, who's lives u are touching.(im glad to be one of them by the way) It is ur perspective that gives me hope that this kind of relationship may truly exist. I just hope that it exists for me. I am so inspired by you; not to settle for an immatation of life that so many get caught up in.Tru3logichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16640365670594580447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-28676124604584515572008-11-12T23:10:00.000-05:002008-11-12T23:10:00.000-05:00KIN'SHAR - isn't he just cute?KIN'SHAR - isn't he just cute?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14948903601663342276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-84131037703292660382008-11-12T22:52:00.000-05:002008-11-12T22:52:00.000-05:00UMMM WAS THAT HARRY POTTER.....lolUMMM WAS THAT HARRY POTTER.....lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-3001145442667723992008-11-12T16:40:00.000-05:002008-11-12T16:40:00.000-05:00Cutietj - You will get there...it starts with a de...Cutietj - You will get there...it starts with a desire in the heart and manifest itself from thereAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14948903601663342276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-26963622689309563722008-11-12T15:51:00.000-05:002008-11-12T15:51:00.000-05:00This post made my mouth drop. U are indeed greatne...This post made my mouth drop. U are indeed greatness. I SO WANT AND DESIRE! that type of relationship one day. :)CutieTJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08998675524839788713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-31811306684704590722008-11-12T14:59:00.000-05:002008-11-12T14:59:00.000-05:00Xivinrah - you have an effect on me as well...I se...Xivinrah - you have an effect on me as well...I see your struggles and I know that you will get past them...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14948903601663342276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-9624134612666572812008-11-12T14:58:00.000-05:002008-11-12T14:58:00.000-05:00Shallotte - Thank you for your kind words...Shallotte - Thank you for your kind words...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14948903601663342276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-72700994361130943692008-11-12T00:18:00.000-05:002008-11-12T00:18:00.000-05:00Thank you so much for sharing with us, the story o...Thank you so much for sharing with us, the story of you and Noel. And thank you for teaching and enlightening us through your writings. You are truly amazing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27292086.post-26968765683219950132008-11-11T20:23:00.000-05:002008-11-11T20:23:00.000-05:00OMG @ THE PICTURES... This is by far the best post...OMG @ THE PICTURES... <BR/><BR/>This is by far the best post I have ever read from this blog. I am going to hold onto this one with all of my heart and mind because it literally gives me an ideal road map as to how the BEST gay relationship can progress. I don't want to remain at Stage 1 for the rest of my life. I want to be with someone I can TRUST with ALL of my heart... someone I can actually KNOW that he wouldn't hurt me or betray me. <BR/><BR/>thegayte-keeper I must say... you are like a mentor to me. You've got my full attention and I hope we can continue to be blog buddies. Hehehe... ^_^ Damn you just ASTOUND me with your knowledge and depth...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com