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Friday, 23 March 2012

OLDIE, BUT GOODIE: ¿TOO MUCH SEX?


Not many partners are equals in libido. Typically, one wants sex more than the other. But that’s NOT the case for Noel and I. There hasn’t been a time when we reached for each other and the other was turned down. In fact I’d say that we can’t seem to get enough of each other…Which brings me to my question, is there such a thing as TOO MUCH SEX? 


I’ve read tons of articles on the subject and I feel that would be the most horrible thing to deal with…THE DEATH OF OUR ROMANCE & THE WANING OF OUR SEXUAL DESIRE FOR EACH OTHER…I mean we are both the type of men that could let one off @ least once a day. For me the thought of having sex occurs countless times a day. And like clockwork right before I sleep, I lay beside Noel look @ him and wonder to myself will we OR will we? I mean we are both willing so why don’t we? Have we allowed ourselves to get caught up in the notion that TOO MUCH of a good isn't a good thing? I am NO where near being tired of sex and I am not concerned about trying to kill it, it is just that I wonder about it from time to time. With noel I’ve learned how to let all aspects of my sexual self shine and I ENJOY expressing myself. For the first time I don’t want to close the door based on some crazy notion AND the fear of the unknown. 

So many couples feel a lot of pressure to remain sexually fresh, new AND exciting. Who needs that? I want us to EMBRACE the on-going discovery of each other and if we get to do that EVERYDAY I don’t think that’s a bad thing @ all…Most if not all of us for reason can’t embrace SEX in the way we should because we abuse N’ misuse it WAY TOO often. From the club to the halls of the churches we are either seeking that thrill OR feeling ashamed because of it…NEVER is there that middle ground where both persons want to spend their lives with each other AND try their hardest to wear each other out on a daily…

10 comments:

  1. lmao! sometimes i want more sex and sometimes he wants more sex. my partner and i are never in the same level lol... when he wants it i'm tired and when i want it he's tired. we just have to find the right time to do it. too much sex? what's that? i think it's the question of "when can you go again?" ... right!??!?!

    happy weekend! *hugs

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    1. When can you go again is ALWAYS on my mind.

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  2. nah... never too much. Go for it!

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  3. NEVER? Either feast or famine? Depressing thought and I wasn't cc'd on that memo. I could do it 3x a day and my BF apparently can easily live without it save for special occasions. I did get the memo on that but chose to ignore it.

    My B'day is tomorrow so maybe I'll get laid and maybe then again, I wont. I'm beginning to understand why guys give themselves 'permission to play', but that aint my style and unfortunately, he's the only one who knows how to ring my chimes.

    BTW, since I have so much extra time on my hands, I decided to blog again. Will let you know when it's ready for prime time. And thanks for being my muse.. but the jury is still out on whether or not anybody else but you is really interested in what I gots to say.

    XXXXX, Jeff

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    1. 3X A DAY? COOL BEANS!!!!

      HOPE YOU GET LOTS OF EARTH~DAY SEX

      I AM SURE YOU BLOG WOULD BE WELL LOVED!

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    2. 3x a day eh? we may have to visit him, Gayte. :)

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    3. 2 at one blow? a delicious thought. one of my unfulfilled aspirations as a 'str8' man was to 'do it with a Black chick.' i did try my hardest to 'do it with a Black guy', but nobody would give me the right time of day. O!Daddie, has my luck finally changed? i dont know if i could handle either one or both of you simultaneously, but i am willing to die trying. :>~

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  4. Too much sex, no such thing. I always say there are 2 things I will forgo sleep for, food and sex, but I am not always hungry;)

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