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Monday, 11 May 2009

OLDIE, BUT GOODIE: SIX DEGREES OF HOMOSEXUALITY


Six degrees of Separation (also referred to as the "Human Web") refers to the idea that, if a person is one step away from each person they know and two steps away from each person who is known by one of the people they know, then everyone is at most six steps away from any other person on Earth. So with the various gay communities around the world, I felt that it stand to reason that the SIX DEGREES OF HOMOSEXUALITY isn’t that different @ all, in fact it is much closer than we think…So this blog entry came about by accident really and I’ve been trying to understand the dynamics of we gay men operate with each other. And this blog entry sparked my interest a few years ago…My friends and I were having a discussion that prompted my theory of 'SIX DEGREES OF HOMOSEXUALITY.' We were all sitting on the bed just talking, and for some reason we started talking about guys, not realizing that we all knew one guy in particular. However, a certain guy by the name of Dominique stood out to me and to my friends. Apparently he used his real name with me and some another with them, so imagine their shock when they realized that he is the same person and that he is GAY! I THOUGHT IT INTERESTING BECAUSE IT SEEMS THAT NO MATTER HOW WE THINK WE ARE MEETING A NEW FACE HE ISN’T SO NEW. Yes he is new to the person that don’t know him, but he ISN’T new to the game…The world is round and if we form a circle around it, the gay community would be hand in hand, fucking each other like there is no tomorrow. Now don’t get me wrong, the SOLE purpose of this entry is NOT to bash gay men for engaging in sexual encounters with each other, that would rather wrong of me…right? I am no saint, I have done my fair share of fucking and sucking, but I am not defined by what I do sexually. Sad to say most GAY men are. In their own primitive way I feel that these men believe that this is their attempt to bring the community closer gaining acceptance. Given this was the case, it is quite reasonable for us to understand the biological make up of what is called homosexuality. The bonding of men, with the natural desire to form a soulful union never seems to happen, its all about the getting off. Man, unlike the animal beasts that roamed the earth, was unique, in that God gave him free will. His free will allowed for him to experience the world through his sense of sight and sound allowing him to come to terms with the very idea of existing. Homosexual men live in a time of great challenge; this very existence would have urged him to continually search out the means of providing for himself and his community. Hence it’s inevitable that we all know each other? Are the orgies and hook-ups that occur in our community the only REAL connections that we can make? I endeavor not to do so. I want a life that about a connection that extends beyond what I can do sexually with another man. I want us to connect with each other and not just see a dick to suck or an ass to ride. Among the perils we are confronted with, our survival, our continual hunt for prey; wouldn’t it be better to stalk the beast and walk away rather than it becoming a matter of kill or be killed? We are very complex, so when GOD created the world and gave us as gift to the world he did so with love. Until society can nurture, love and give it freely to HOMOSEXUALS, the world shall always be at conflict with each other. The consequences arising from such atrocities will be making us victims of ourselves.

8 comments:

  1. Good Post.
    I still to this day cannot fathom how a guy could have sex with a guy but not a relationship or share emotions or as your post states "natural desire to form a soulful union never seems to happen, its all about the getting off". INSANE! UsSGL Bothas must stop this cycle by staying away from these emotional train wrecks no matter how strong our urges are to get off with them.

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  2. You know when I used to hear about gay men...first thing came to my mind was its just a sexual thing. Not realizing that men could see other men for who they are and really be attracted to them.

    aNyWaY.....I cant be intimate with someone with having feelings involve. I DONT HAVE CASUAL SEX!!

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  3. I agree with Oyin and Langston. Being "CUT BUDDIES" is not my thing either. Thats why I take my time in gettin to know individuals cause if I rush into it, then I know for a fact it's gonna be another "cut buddy" episode.

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  4. The idea that one can sleep with someone and then the next day never talk to him again is beyond me. Sex is temporary, deeper connection last lifetimes.

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  5. I didn't believe that this would be true and I've tried it over and over and it has held to be so true!

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  6. KA-OS - I AM GLAD YOU LIKE THIS BLOG ENTRY

    LANGSTON BALDWIN - WE WILL GET THE MESSAGE...EVENTUALLY...

    OYIN - KEEP IT THAT WAY...

    JB - I LIKE HOW YOU THINK...

    WONDER MAN - THANKS...

    URSOVAIN - LET THEM KNOW...

    FUZZY - IT IS TRUE, IT SO IS...

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