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Sunday, 21 December 2008

BUT ONCE A YEAR...

All over the world, there exists a simple principle that, when followed, has the power to end conflict AND expel strife. It is the Golden Rule, a key concept in many philosophies and spiritualities that asks us to DO UNTO OTHERS AS WE WOULD HAVE THEM DO UNTO US. Its meaning is clear: treat others only in ways that you would want to be treated. However, the golden rule is NOT always easy to follow. It can be a challenge to honor others as we wish to be honored. Yet, during this festive season we somehow…someway find the time to bestow gifts of LOVING kindness on our fellow man. I for one am willing to take ANY act of kindness when it is shown, but I can’t help but feel that we are a bit cheated when it is done but once a year. If only we lived like Christmas was EVERY day where our good thoughts AND well wishes were rooted in PURE compassion and we NOT feel compel to perform any specific act. CAN SOMEONE TELL ME…What happens to us when the decorations come down? Does the harmony and good-will disappear when the last drop of rum leaves the bottle? Why does the sweet sounds of laughter N’ happiness is like that cake crumb that is thrown in the trash? I guess I am asking questions that NO one cares to answer because we are all guilty of putting ourselves first AND NOT looking for opportunities to care for each other beyond this festive season. I mean SHOWING COMPASSION, BEING CONSIDERATE OF OTHERS, CARING FOR THE LESS FORTUNATE & GIVING GENEROUSLY ARE JUST SOME OF THE THINGS THAT MANKIND SHOULD ASPIRE TO BUT…We all know of the POSITIVE effect we can have on this world, yet we put on this farce EVERY season. I live my life thinking that…KINDNESS BEGETS KINDNESS & WE SHOULD PAY-IT-FORWARD NOT JUST ONCE A YEAR. IN REALITY WHAT WE HAVE ARE PERSONS THAT ARE TRYING TO BE A LIGHT BUT ONCE A YEAR…I GUESS THIS MEANS THAT THEY HAVE AN OUT FOR THE OTHER 50 OR SO WEEKS OF THE YEAR. NO MATTER WHO WE ARE OR WHAT WE DO WHEN WE DO IT, I HOPE THAT WE ALL DO WHAT OUR SOUL N’ HEART DICTATES…IT IS THE ONLY WAY WE CAN ACTUALLY EXPERIENCE THE PUREST EXPRESSION OF WHAT IT MEANS TO BE HUMAN. THIS WOULD MEAN THAT WE ARE LOOKING PAST OUR STATUS OF RICH/POOR, BLACK/WHITE, GAY/STRAIGHT & SO ON…CAN YOU IMAGINE WHAT WORLD THIS COULD BE IF WE GOT BENEATH THE SURFACE OF WHO WE ARE AS HUMANS BY MERELY ACTING HUMANLY TO OTHERS? WOULDN’T YOU RATHER SEE THE TRUE ESSENCE OF YOUR FELLOW MAN, THE RADIANCE OF HIS BEING & THE SPIRIT THAT LIVES WITHIN HIM ALL YEAR ROUND? SO AS WE CARVE THAT TURKEY & RAISE OUR COLLECTIVE GLASSES, MY HOPE N’ WISH THIS CHRISTMAS SEASON IS THAT WE REMEMBER THAT SO LITTLE OF WHO EACH OF US IS CAN’T BE CAPTURED DURING THIS TIME OF THE YEAR, & THAT THE THOUGHTS, FEARS, DESIRES & LONGINGS THAT ARE PART OF WHAT MAKES US WHOLE ARE GOING TO BE WITH US FOR A LIFETIME…CHRISTMAS IS BUT ONCE A YEAR, BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN THAT WE HAVE TO MAKE A SPECIAL EFFORT TO CARE FOR EACH OTHER DURING THIS TIME…DOES IT?

7 comments:

  1. I COULDN'T AGREE MORE WITH THESE SENTIMENTS AND CELINE DION'S DON'T SAVE IT ALL FOR CHRISTMAS DAY COMES TO MIND. WHY IS THAT WE ONLY SEEM TO CARE AT CHRISTMAS? IS THIS REALLY GENUINE OR WE SIMPLY DO WHAT WE ARE EXPECTED TO?
    SO IN AS MUCH AS GIVING IS GOOD, AND I APPLAUD IT LET'S JUST BE REAL AND GENUINE ABOUT GIVING AND LOOKING OUT FOR FELLOW MEN. LET IT NOT JUST BE SEASONAL AROUND CHRISTMAS BUT LET THAT CARE AND CONCERN BE IN YOUR HEART THROUGHOUT THE YEAR.
    SO TO BURROW A FEW LINES FROM CELINE'S SONG.....'' DON'T SAVE IT ALL FOR CHRISTMAS DAY... FIND A WAY TO GIVE A LITTLE LOVE EVERYDAY''.....

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  2. Buying someone a gift at Christmas has nothing to do with kindness if you don't show your humanity all throughout the year. That looks more like 'mob psychology' than anything else.

    Everyone is excited and people are looking forward to relaxing and partying, so that puts them in a good mood. So we give gifts because that is what is normally done at this time of year, 'in the spirit of Christmas'.

    Your boss gave you chocolates, does that mean she has suddenly transformed into a kind person? I don't think so (until I hear differently next year).

    Being kind, compassionate and loving cannot be a one-time affair. It cannot be switched on and off at particular times. It's the core of your being and will shine through at all times. Otherwise it is not genuine.

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  3. That is my rule of thumb...and always have been for life....well since adulthood


    I always treat others the way I want to be treated. I love everybody...but I dont expect all to love me, just give me some respect!!!

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  4. It does seem like that we all make some sort of extra effort to show love this time of year...is it because we want a gift...hahaha

    I dont know but I do know that it seems that my damn attitude changes this time of year.....FOR THE WORST!!

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  5. I try to live my life by this gold rule. It has been something that was embedded in my spirit when i was very young. and I know that 9 times out of 10 i do for others what my heart and soul dictate. it would be nice to feel some of that reciprocated. but hey....

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  6. If we did this then what would we do @ Christmas???
    Genius

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  7. I agree the spirit of Christmas should be with us all year.

    I was back @ my hometown for Christmas [late in commenting] & I saw relatives who live here that I haven't seen in months

    So I am resolving to have a better relationship with one [1] of them this year [I can't really relate to the others]

    But outside of the gift giving just keeping that cheer & goodwill with us will do us & others a world much better

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