CUTTING CORDS (MEN ARE LIKE APPLES)

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It is my belief that MEN are like APPLES on trees. The best ones are @ the top, but the boys don’t want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling AND getting hurt. Instead, they get the rotten apples from the ground that aren’t as good. But easy. So the apples up top think something is wrong with them when in reality they’re amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who’s brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree. So many of us has had our fair share of ROTTEN apples and for some reason many of us seem to keep them so near AND dear to our hearts when they need to be processed AND released. IT IS ALL ABOUT A SENSE OF CLOSURE & CUTTING EMOTIONAL CORDS…In our relationships we are constantly exchanging energy that can become a chord connecting us. This energetic cord forms just below the breastbone and can remain long after a relationship has ended. This unbroken cord may leave an open channel between you and him, through which emotions and energy can continue to flow. Besides the fact that this can limit the amount of closure you can experience in a relationship, letting this cord remain intact can leave you with a continued sense of sadness while creating feelings of lethargy as your own energy is sapped from you. Cutting the cord can help you separate yourself from old baggage, unnecessary attachments, and release you from connections that are no longer serving you. Finding and cutting unwanted cords is a simple, gentle process that is best done alone and when you are relaxed. It is important that you are strong in your intention to release the chord between you and someone else. When you are ready, visualize or sense the chords that are connecting you to other people. Run your fingers through the cords to separate them until you find the cord you wish to sever. There is no need to worry, because the chord you need to sever will feel just right. When you have found it, determine where the cut should be made and then visualize the cord being cleanly cut. Afterwards, if you feel that cutting the chord has left spaces in your soul, then visualize those spaces being filled with a healing sunlight. This process is GOOD in that it can free you from a relative OR lover that NO longer serves a meaningful purpose. Though you are doing this process it is IMPORTANT to note that you are NOT severing the relationship, you are severing the chords that are NO longer serving you both. In any case, cutting a relationship cord should always be viewed as a positive and nurturing act. By cutting the cords that no longer need to be there, you are setting yourself and others free from the ties that bind.